My boyfriend is nice to me but not to my friends.
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1. he should treat everyone the same. if he is mean to your friends that means he will e mean to you soon!!!!!
2. This is a matter of respect. It is a sign of respect when he is nice to your friends even if he doesn't like them.
3. It is never okay to be rude to your friends EVEN if he is nice to you.
If ANYTHING he should be nice to your friends because they are YOUR friends and he is just the boyfriend. Is there a reason behind his rudeness? Do they just not get along? I would ask these questions because if you want to ever get serious with this guy you don't want to always be in the middle. You also don't want to alienate yourself from your friends because they will be there if/when this guy leaves the picture.
4. Well. I was nice to my ex's friends but except one but that was just cause she was mean. Its usual for a guy to do that.
5. if he isnt nice to ur friends, then thats not the right guy for you.
guys have to like your friends.
6. Well, rude is rude, regardless who it's directed toward. You have a boyfriend with the infamous two-faced syndrome...good luck with that...
7. tell him to be nicer to ur friends. if he really likes you he'll listen
8. ahaha most guys are only nice to you if they want something (cough cough) and if there dating you, they don't need your friends............
unless..................
but i know that i am jokingly mean to my girlfriends friends
9. I guess it's okay, as long as you're okay with giving up your friends for someone who might not be there tomorrow.
Depends on who you care about more. And you can still care about your boyfriend just as much while getting him to be nice to your friends.
10. Well I guess is not nice to your friends if they are good and nice to you... I guess your man have to deal with it.. maybe he is jelous and he want you just for him... I will never let my man be rude with my friends...but is your decition....take care girl
11. For me....being rude to anyone is a deal breaker.
It's takes no extra energy to be polite to people.
12. well im nice to my girlfriend but her friends i dont like there a buntch of spoiled sluts
13. ahh he shouldnt be mean to your friends!
maybe if he cant except that there your friends you should forget him, even if he is nice to you then arent you kinda alike your friends? idk message me for more help :D
14. Absolutely not. Your friends will last much longer than a boy, but not if you keep this up. When it comes to guys who are jerks to other people, it doesn't matter that he makes an exception for 1 person.
15. No, it's not okay for him to be rude to your friends. It's disrespectful & one way to isolate you from your friends.
Isolating a person is one way an abuser starts to dominate someone so watch out.
16. ofcourse not.. him being rude to them, means he doesn't respect your choice of friends.
17. No, being rude is an ego problem. If your friends are rude to him, he should defend himself, actually you should defend him. But his being rude to them, without cause is a sign of jealousy and other similar maturity problems. Warning signs to get a boyfriend that cares.
18. No way. A bf should treat ur friends the way he treats u with respect! Imagine if u dumped him and then he started going out with one of ur friends and was mean 2 u? That wouldnt b ok! Either dump him or talk bout it with him. And do it fast or he might never be abl 2 fix his prob!
19. He should treat your friends with respect as well, cause it only means he'll treat you as he treats them in the future. Beware
20. i dont think its okay.
"if you want to judge a mans character, look not at how he treats his equals, but how he treats his lessers."
although i dont think anyone has "lessers", i think that everyone should treat EVERYONE the same.
but its up to you.
its what YOU think about him, and not what anyone else does, that matters.
btw, what do you mean by "not nice?" is he flat-out mean, or just not exactly friendly?
21. It is never acceptable to be rude to anyone regardless of social status. Watch how he treats your friends and wonder how he talks about you behind your back and wonder how he will remember you to his friends when and if it is over. He'd be rude to you now if he could get away with it.
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23. it's not okay. If you have great friends and they are not giving him a valid reason to dislike them, then maybe he just isn't the right guy. I've dated a guy who couldn't stand one of my friend's but he had a valid reason, she would say something sarcastic to him whenever she saw him and then they would end up arguing. Ask him why he's soo rude to them.
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