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How old were you when you were comfortable talking to the opposite sex?

   
I don't really know any guys really; I was always very shy in school never talked; didn't know what too say. not many guys in high school either who were single. or they didn't seem like boyfriend material seems like they'll have other ppl on the side too. even making friends with girls is hard all I have is my parents; seeing a counselor to due to depression from all those lost youth years I missed and messed certain stages that's not healthy psychologically to miss. even in counseling because of depression due to

Answers:

1. 2 or 3 years old.

2. I started talking to them in 6th grade. Just pertend like they aren't there, be crazy, people feel more comfortable around you when YOU are the LOUD ONE!

3. i was 14 or something. my first year outside of an all girls-school, so now i was in a mixed class: both guys and girls. i got used to it pretty quickly... from what you said it sounds almost as if you're only reason for wanting to talk to guys is to find a boyfriend. first off, male friends are often also a lot of fun to have and hang out with. it's ok to just be friends with a guy you know. and unless you talk to a guy... how can you know he's not boyfriend-material? sometimes guys (especially "bad boys") put on a little act and there actually sometimes a lot sweeter/nicer once you get to know them. good luck to you!!

4. just be yourself, the guys will follow as soon as your comfortable being yourself you can't be right for somebody else if your not right for you and the more you talk to guys the more you'll get used to it PS: i was around 12