ok, there is this guy that i sort of like. We've been friends for almost a year, and we have gone out once for almost 2 months. Everytime we talk on the phone (which is every night) he always is asking me out or talking about how much he loves me, and how much i'm hurting him by telling him that i don't really want a bf anymore... a personal choice... anyways my friends all hate him, because he has done some bad things in his life...and so on... anyways.. i think i sort of like him and every thing but I don't think i want to date until i get out of high school... I keep telling him that if he wants me to be his gf, that he will have to wait 2 years... he keeps saying some stupid combacks and now i need ur help!!! How can i get through to him that i don't want a bf until i'm out of hs in a really nice way... Plz HELP!!!!!! give me ur opinions and help
Answers:
1. Well this guy clearly isn't respecting YOUR boundaries. If he did respect and if he really does love you he wouldn't try and push you to go out with him when you clearly don't want too. Tell him the next time he tries to push you to go out with him that if he really does love you then he wouldn't try and push you to go out with him...
2. hey well lets see you seem to no what you want in life which is good while you in high school.
lots of time and from my experience when you date people that you have been friend with it always does not work because when you go in to a relationship you want to learn new things about that other person.
OK you are your own person so it should not matter what your Friends think because it is your choice OK. now lets see this guy must really like you but if that is the case he will wait till you are ready if not , sorry but that means that you need to find a new Friend who will respect you decisions
hope i helped
3. Well this guy clearly isn't respecting YOUR boundaries. If he did respect and if he really does love you he wouldn't try and push you to go out with him when you clearly don't want too. Tell him the next time he tries to push you to go out with him that if he really does love you then he wouldn't try and push you to go out with him...
4. hey well lets see you seem to no what you want in life which is good while you in high school.
lots of time and from my experience when you date people that you have been friend with it always does not work because when you go in to a relationship you want to learn new things about that other person.
OK you are your own person so it should not matter what your Friends think because it is your choice OK. now lets see this guy must really like you but if that is the case he will wait till you are ready if not , sorry but that means that you need to find a new Friend who will respect you decisions
hope i helped
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