ok so here's the deal. i've been with my current boyfriend once before. we were both only 15 at that time. it lasted for a year and a half but it didn't work out back then. when i was dating him the first time around i had a best friend, who i started a relationship with when i was 18. this thing with my best friend lasted about 5months. now we're both at college and because we happen to hang out with the same people a lot we're trying to get back to being friends. before we ever went out, we were truely best buds and now we both regret ever dating because it ruined our friendship.
should i tell my current boyfriend (you know, the one i was also with when i was 15 and who knows that me and the other guy were best friends first and then lovers) that i'm hanging out with my ex-best friend/ex-boyfriend occasionally again?
i'm afraid he'll think feelings will resurface, but those feelings were never really strong to begin with. i just want to be friends, that's all.
Answers:
1. 10 hours ago
i'm back together with my current guy for 8 months now. i'm at dorm so we only see eachother once a week, but we manage: we call everyday and text/IAM. when we're together it's so much fun and we're so in love. i wouldn't want to risk this relationship for anything in the world. so i guess i have 3 options:
1. i tell my boyfriend about hanging out with my ex and try to reassure him
2. i don't tell him... but i don't consider this to be the best option because of honesty and what if he finds out through someone else
3. i give up on trying to be friends with my ex again. eventhough we both agree us getting together in the first place was a mistake and that he is no threat to my current boyfriend
2. stupid girls.........thats all i can say
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