i have been with my bofirend for a long time. i love him. but i hve this problem............
he used to say the sweetest things to me all the time. he still tells me that he is completly in love with me, but he doesnt try as hard as he used to. i dont know how to get him to show me the love!!!!! i cant ask him for complimients..............
i dont know how to get him to say the perfect things like he used to just a few short months ago!!
Answers:
1. trying talking to him and see what he says
2. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we have a kid together as of 2 months ago and he's not so good with compliments either. so i know what you're going through. When i came downstairs wearing my prom dress he never even told me i looked pretty i said to him "Do i look alright" and he said "yeah" i wish he said things to me like your boyfriend used to but i guess im not the lucky one.
3. go to the guy that says the right things
luke?
4. Do unto others as you would have others do unto you. You have to be his example and re-teach him by being that way to him, choose only his good qualities and compliment him on them, some time's reminding him of how he used to be and asking him to be that way again, will clue him in, he probably lost it because of unappreciativeness on your part, like thank you ect...and on the other hand if he has really lost it then you should rethink your relationship with him because you cannot marry if it does'nt improve, how can you marry a person on a deteriorated relationship?, a relationship has got to improve if it's going to last forever.
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