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Is this guy I work with more likely to like me or just see me as a friend?

   
He asked me a few years ago if I liked him . . . but I laughed at him and he hasn’t asked since. He cares alot about what I think of him The last time he dated someone he got mad when I found out and said it was nothing serious. (He broke up w/her) He sometimes calls me at work for no reason . . . but he doesn’t call me every time he knows I’m working or call me outside work We hang out rarely . . . but he asks others to go with us . . . he won’t go if he has something else to do . . . I have to ask him to go Sometimes when we are hanging out he does things that might be flirting . . . for example the last time we hung out he said something that might have been flirting and looked in my eyes a long time and smiled. Finally I got embarrassed and looked down, then he jumped up and stretched with this big smile on his face and said something I couldn't hear. Until a few days ago, he thought it was against my religion to date.

Answers:

1. it depends on ithe way he looks at you

2. aint it obvious, he likes you

3. Stop torturing yourself and ask him.

4. Sounds like someone has a crush on you!!

5. i would just ask him how he feels, and if you like him, maybe ask him out... what would it hurt right?

6. he totally likes you as a girlfriend!

7. you know he seems like he puts you on a pedestal. He just doesnt want to scare you off so thats why he brings other people to play it off. I think you should step up and take the lead and take some pressure off of him.

8. I think he is crushing on you. He is asking you if you like him! And he is afriad to go to a place alone with you because he does not want to ruin the relationship. I really think if u like him , you should ask him to go out for some coffee after work =)

9. the best thing i can say is (from a guys opinion) keep urself open dont start burning bridges because he could be flirting with you and he also could be setting you up for a massive fall so do like i do dont focus on one stay open and be prepared for a heartbrake, im not saying at all that it will end up that way but it is better to be ready because there is always that chance. so gud luck and hope everything goes ok

10. It's amazing how much time people like yourselves waste dancing around & wondering about trivial things like this. Take a hint from dogs: They sniff eachothers butts & then mount eachother - in a few moments it's a done deal. I'm not suggesting you sniff eachothers rear ends, but get on with your lives already. If you like what you see - go for it!

11. mabey

12. Romance and work is a dangerous game. Either plan to leave if you really want to be with him and you find he feels the same, or look outside of work for someone else. If you are romantically fond of him, you need to find out how he feels. If you mutually are interested in eachother, one of you needs to find another employer, or transfer to another location, if that option is avalible. Good Luck :-)

13. Well, guys usually tend not to commit, but he might be an exception. From what I can see, he might like you... But you have to sort of be patient... It takes a long time to go from being friends with a guy to being more than friends. But who knows... Anyways... Do not tell him that you like him. Let him come to you. He seems like a really nice guy and he seems to care about you , so wait and see.

14. I'm reading mixed fealings here.I get the emprison that we would like to have more,but is hanging back. Tell him that you are dateable.and hint around that you would like him to take you on a date..

15. YOU "laughed at him"!?!?! Well it seems he has'nt "totally" given up, but now it's up to YOU to put YOUR heart on the line. Maybe he won't laugh at YOU!! But he ought to.