ok so here's the story.
ME = super shy & quiet & flat-chested
I hardly talk to anyone. No one ever talks to me! Inside, I'm a nice person. It's just that I'm super shy. I could never get a guy, right...?
Anyways, so there is this one guy. I never noticed him much and we hardly know each other. But one day he slipped me a note saying that he thinks "my body is nice" and wants to know if i want to go out with him.
well, idk, i never had a BF, and i dont have many friends at school. (i have two sort-of close friends) i just started public school, which is why it's like that.
so anyways im really shy and im not sure what i want! i always wanted a boyfriend, but i want a friend friend too! how am i supposed to tell him?
yet when i think of us together, i kind of go eww, and i know this will sound really mean but he is not cute one bit or anything i feel so bad to say that but i got to give him props for having the courage to ask me
what am i supposed to decide? HELP somebody
Answers:
1. You should never say yes because you you feel bad to say no, because in the end you both will just wind up getting hurt. You should always be honest when it comes to things like this, people's pride and emotions are on the line, and they should be cared for in the right way. Just let him know that your flattered that he asked you and it was very sweet, but you need some time to settle in to your new school, and get to know him better, just be friends first.
2. Well tell him you will go out with him as friends and see how it is. So what if he is not cute, his personality may make him cute. Don't judge on looks believe me. I have had the hottest guys my whole life but the one I am in love with is someone people say they can't believe we are together cause he is not "my type" Go for it.
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