his gf instead of just having sex with him.but he said to me that he is 2 busy for a gf.Is that just a excuse.I like him but i feel like he is using me.
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1. girl yah i think he is just using u to get his pleasures....if he dont wanna hav a gf then that means he is wanted somethin else from you......
2. Dont do it please! Ive been through that, hes just using you. Do you want to feel used? Do you want to be his sex toy? Look for a bf that will love you.
3. He is using you, he has plainly told you this when he told you he is to busy to have a girlfriend. The best thing you can do is move on before you get hurt. Before you have sex again you should make sure you are already in a serious relationship with the guy.
4. why should he pay for the cow when he gets the milk for free. Stop giving it to him and find someone else if hes not willing to make that commitment
5. i guess everyone is having one for free. can i have one for free?
you mean this dude hit it for free? aawww gal..
6. I can tell you this right now that all he wants is sex. It seems like atm he wants sex and only sex and isnt looking for a gf. Watch out though if you tell him you want to be his gf he will probably say yes if it means him getting more sex from you.
7. You cannot have your cake and eat it. That's what's going on.
I know how you feel I have been told I am using you for your body (dance major from new York and she was nice).
Here' the deal if you are under say 60 then you can always find another. So here is what you do. Ask him to church this Wednesday night. If you don't go to church you better hurry up and scope out the ones around you. Then y'all go to church.
It's your life and you shouldn't have to do something just to have a friend or bf. There are just too many folks out there that feel the same way you do, just like some of these answers who answered your question. He may get mad, but that puts you in the drivers seat.
So stay busy till Wednesday and ask him and see if he will go if not you will meet a bunch of guys and girls at church and have a ton of new friends. If you don't think anyone loves you then read Psalms and Matthew and John. We all think you are pretty cool, the "free guy".
Please don't sale yourself short, you may regret this later and don't forget about all the diseases out there. Enjoy your life and don't be pressured into anything, you'll be glad you did.
You take care..
8. We all have decisions think thouroughly is this right before you read this
+ personally he is using you or whatever his friends could be daring him or maybe its something from you maybe your pretty and he likes you there are many questions but not enough answers therefor all i wouldnt do it because if hes saying stuff like that im sure hes lying but you dont have to take this review it with your self study his actions then thats the only way to be sure you know what your doing is right and wonder if maybe hes taking advantage of your friendship just maybe
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