I'm in love with my girlfriend of many months. We broke up because I admitted to sleeping w/ Rose. Before my guilt admittance Rose attended a football game with my g/f & I. I slept w/ Rose the night of the game. I also had slept w/ Rose b4 the gm on multiple occasions. I criticized my g/f for weight issues. Due to feeling like crap and unappreciated my g/f kissed another guy. I bashed her for kissing someone else. I pretended to be upset, but not hurt. After this incident, I told my g/f that Rose only like me. My g/f called for a meeting to discuss her feelings and Rose's feelings. She told Rose that she love me very much and wanted to know why Rose cared so deeply for me. Rose "He makes me smile and he is not after sex. After breaking up with me, I went through hoops to try to get my g/f back. Problem: Rose is deeply hurt b/c she too is in love w/ me. I care for Rose too. I told my g/f I cheated b/c she kissed this guy. My g/f doesn't want me 2 contact Rose anymore, I differ.
Answers:
1. haha, you totally got what you deserved, I hope this happens again and again to you.
2. It sounds like you have a clear choice to make. Dump one of them, date the other one. This whole triangle thing is not going to be good in the long term.
3. i'm not sure read the below answers
4. you are a jerk
get things straight
you cant have both
i pity your girlfriend and i think she should kick your @s$ to the curb.
and as for rose, she sounds like a girl who cant keep her paws of other ladies men so she can have you. you both suit eachother well.
5. you two timin son of a gun. all i ahve to say si congrats, and man rose is a sexy name
6. It sounds like you are polyamorous. Trying to deny it is going to be tough for you. But, it is not an easy path. Keep being honest. You may end up losing both of them, but honesty always wins out in the end.
7. your not ready for a mature relationship................do... have a gf at all and just sleep around.......since that is what you really want to do isnt it ?.................... and never ever ashume you can hit any girl for any reason.....................its not on...............get your self into some counciling...sounds like you have issues...........................
8. too be honest buddy I think you should ditch the both of them. I mean sometimes its better to leave some things broken... imagine it like a glass. No matter how much you patch it together, there'll always be some holes or differ from the original.
Rose slept with you, messed around while you were with a girl. What makes you think she wont be all paranoid in the future, thinking you're cheating on her like you did with the ex.
G/F- no matter how strong feelings you had for her, I think you CHEATING on her is your hearts way of telling you she isnt the one.
So be friends with them or dont be. I reccomend leaving it at that, to save whatever relationship you can to keep them in your life.
Sorry hombre, if this isnt what you want to hear... but thats my opinion. Take it easy and good luck.
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