i'm going to see this girl that i really love, she doesn't know that o love her, i don't even know how she feels about me.
i think i need to show her that i care about her. (i think if i just tell her that i love her, she will be scared) i don't think i can buy her anything, because then she will be thinking why is he doing this. and on the other hand, i don't think that her father would be happy about it. (me buying something for his duter)
what do i do?
Answers:
1. Kiss her in the rain.
2. wear a clown outfit and bring her a bouquet of balloons.
3. kiss her.
4. DUTER? HA!
Buy her favorite candy bar. This says I care about you, but doesn't signify anything too huge.
5. Play it cool buddy. Slow down. Be mysterious and she'll be curious. Don't be needy.Move too fast you'll scare her away. Flowers are always appreciated.
Not roses yet.
Start with daisies. Nobody ever buys daisies anymore. She'll think your original.
6. take the first step. when i'm with guys that i like and i know that they like me too, i wish they'd tell me first. this girl might really like you too. if she doesn't its okay but tell her how you feel before its too late
7. You can show her that you really care by really listening to her. Sound concerned if she is upset about something and excited if she is happy about something. And yes, it would probably scare her if you told her that you loved her without having ever had any kind of dating relationship, but you can certainly tell her that you like her or care a lot about her. Girls like to hear things simple like that, as long as they can tell it is heartfelt.
8. Just strike up a conversation with her, then ask her to go out with you somewhere.
9. Ask questions about her and listen carefully. Show her you care about HER. Show her respect and move slowly.
Don't tell her you love her yet. You'll seem desperate - plus, you really don't know whether you do or not.
With her dad - be attentive and treat him with respect. If you are taking her out, make sure you understand the rules about when she should be home, etc.
10. Dude, if you have no clue how she feels about you... why waste your money, cause if the girl doesn't really like you she'll just feel bad.
First off, if she doesn't know about your feelings and you don't know about her's... tell her you REALLY LIKE her... not love... love MAY creep her out.
11. You need to relax to begin with and take her some flowers and a box of candy. When you met her father address him respectful...Sir. Sit down and have a conversation about something everyone can have in put on and don't try any thing....ever. Keep it simple and light, OK?
12. Start small. First, just be her friend. Just hang out, have a good time, and be a good listener.
Then, after your date, tell her that you really like her. Don't tell her you love her---you're right, she'll probably think you're weird and run away screaming (LOL---I'm just teasing you---but if she's a nice girl you will frighten her.)
Then, make a date to see her again. Keep being her pal, be nice, talk to her and listen to her, and tell her again how special she is becoming to you. Yes, pay for everything. Girls still think that is polite.
Then, see her again. (No one said this was going to be quick.) Same routine. Maybe by the third date you can dump the "I love you" on her.
IF she has agreed to see you 3 times in a row then you know she must like something about you, right? Now if you dump the 3 little words on her she has something to think about and consider and you are feeling stronger because she's wanted to see you 3 times already!
Communication is the key to every good relationship there ever was. Forget all that crap you see in the movies. It's romantic baloney.
Talk to her. Listen to her. Be her friend. Then tell her your news.
Love has to have a foundation. It's not some puffy cotton candy that can just float in the air for people to catch.
It doesn't work that way. Love is something you build brick by brick.
13. Well my friend the best thing to do is buy her something special that would symbolizes love,respect, and friendship. Kissing her? its not a good idea. Much better if you will do it w/ strategy if she's really special to you definitely you don't want her to loose in your arms. Make her feel special by doing special things that your heart and mind wants but be careful of doing things that might hurt her feelings and take a step by step for her. being there for her all the time is the best thing to do to make her feel that she's special to you then if she asks why are you doing this to her...tell her that she's a very special person in your life and afraid to loose her. explain what you feel to her then listen to her side also. Good luck!! I know you can do it!!
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