Does a girl not being confident with her body turn you off?? cuz i hate mine and dont know if i should try to be more comfortable with it or just not say anymore that i think that i am fat
Answers:
1. yes confidence is a turn on, so that would be a turn off
2. ding ding ding yes it is
3. I don't really see how it would turn me off. The thing that would matter though is how you see yourself and what your comfortable with being. That is the person your bf will most likely love or like pending of course on the type of guy he is(insensitive/sensitive).
4. BE comfortable with it
5. It doesn't turn me off but I am not a high school boy.
You should work on portraying confidence. That is what most guys find attractive (even as shallow as high school boys can be!)
6. Saying that is a turn off. I don't know why, but guys like a girl thats confident and secure. It probably bothers you more than it bothers them.
7. yeah you need to be confident because if your not then it is a turn off.
8. all guys already except that a girl is going to be a little self conscience about her body, the important part is to not be too much so, because that is a turn off
9. yes.. a turn off. You should already be happy with yourself... worrying like that means that you're all wrapped up into yourself, and may not be a good partner...
10. Most people find insecure people annoying. I'd hate to be in a relationship with a girl who is always whining about their body and how they hate it and how they are fat blah blah blah.
If you are over weight GENUINELY (not just a warped self perception), then eat healthy food, stop eating junk food and soda, and get some exercise. Then you will have a toned body you can be happy with, and you kill two birds with one stone.
11. if you are not confident and love your body why would anyone else??? ---- please ignore what other people say and learn to love who you are ---- best wishes
12. Different men have different tastes. Be comfortable in what/who you are and you will find someone that likes you for who/what you are.
Yes. It's very frustrating for a man to deal with a woman he cares for trying to cover up parts of herself in bed that he's already familiar with. If he didn't like big gals, he wouldn't be in bed with you. Relax. Both of you will enjoy it more.
Cheers :-)
13. Hm.... everyone like to mix and know confident people but not those over-confident type. If you always dont feel confident about yourself... it affect peoples, friends around you., it can be a turn off if you are extreme case. If a guy like you, he will accept and like the way you are....
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