I use to date a guy about 6 years ago, it was a physical relationship it eventually ended lasted about 2 1/2 months. I recently ran into him we have been talking on the phone a lil bit, he asked me to come by his place it was about 12 in the afternoon. We just talked for about 2 hrs. The 1 thing he did was tell me to turn around so he could see my backside!! Then he wanted to me to massage his BAD BACK he didnt push hard for the massage when i said no he left it alone. Now 1st of all i wouldnt have went to a strangers house so the fact that he and i already knew each other. was it just playfull flirting on his part or he was really trying to test me. Coz i am not there with that senseless sex. that man is going to care about me b4 he get any of these goodies
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1. 2 hours ago
i think next time if he tries any type of physical stuff " look i dont know e=where u coming from but i am not there and if you think thats what is all about i can leave now and you can forget u ever ran into me
2. keep the goodies. he just wants the sex.
3. WHAT UP GIRL COMIN FROM MY POINT OF VIEW THIS GUY JUST MISSIN U OR HE WANTS TO GIVE U A ONE NIGHT STAND AND THAN LEAVE U AGAIN DONT LET SOMEBODY LIKE THAT TALK TO YOU LIKE THAT TELL HIM WHATS UP AND HOW U FEEL ABOUT THE SITUATION AND IF HE DONT LIKE IT TELL HIM NOT TO CALL ANYMORE
4. Ya sounds like he just wants the sex and the goodies. Don't give them to him until he can prove himself to you and they way you want him to be. Ya going back over the whole thing was to get sex cause he wanted to see your backside.
5. Well . . . if you are thinking a man is supposed to "CARE ABOUT YOU" while you INTENTIONALLY withhold "the goodies" from him, then it looks like you need to remind yourself that he is NOT REQUIRED TO DO SO.
Right??
A woman who WITHHOLDS anything from a man ON PURPOSE and hopes that he will CARE is only kidding herself.
How much would YOU care about HIM if he said, "well I am not going to do ANYTHING for her" until she CARES about me?????
Sex is not "senseless".
It's one of the greatest pleasures in LIFE.
If you don't CARE to see the point in HAVING ANY, because you think it's "SENSELESS" unless there is something ELSE in it for you (other than a screaming orgasm or three). . . . then you should probably prepare yourself for a man NOT to care either.
That's only FAIR, wouldn't you say???
Think about it.
:)
AND P.S -->> Last time I checked, It's not a "crime" for a man to want to see "your backside". So you don't have to pretend that it is. You can just LEAVE instead of blaming HIM for being sexually attracted to you.
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