I feel fairly lame asking this, so bear with me.
I have never "made out" with anyone before, and I would like to with my boyfriend.
Please don't tell me to follow his lead, I'm pretty sure that he hasn't ever made out either.
So if you could tell me how to initiate, what to do, and what NOT to do, it would be much appreciated.
Thanks!
Answers:
1. Practice with your best girlfriend first.
2. Dont shove your tongue down his throat, dont plan it, just go with the flow :)
Do be sexy, dont be a **** ;)
3. just do whatever feels right.
everyone has their own kissing style.
4. its just like everything youve seen in the maovies babydoll just go with the flow
5. Go to:
www.youtube.com
And put how to kiss.
6. Kiss. Kiss. And kiss lots.
I don't consider there to be a "Definition of making out" except, it's usually very pleasurable.
Just make sure he doesn't consider it a invitation for sex...
7. Go slow! if you go fast it obvious your a newbie.
8. Well, when you find out tell me...b/c idk either.
9. SET THE MOOD RIGHT AND YOU'LL GET WHAT YOU WANT!!!
10. Don't worry. It won't help even if people told you what to do or not to do because you won't know for sure until you make the mistakes & learn from it. Believe me.
11. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nfoigseip...
LOL best I can do for you but everyone knows how to do it.. but like i cant explain
12. make sure u dont use your teeth...i'v only had one chick whom in made ouyt with that was bad and it was b/c her teeth were in the way...just honestly do what u think is natural....then u know were u stand and can go from there
13. Do:
move your lips with his
kindof lick your lips b4 contact with his
close your eyes!
Do Not:
spit in his mouth or make it REALLY gooey
be afraid of funny squishing noises, happens to the best of us
get carried away and use ur tounge yet
14. You don't say how old are you they are different procedures for different ages !
15. Go Nike: Just Do It
16. It is natural you do not have think about it, but protection is required, no fooling!
Regrets are a bummer to live with.
17. you know, this is a great question. this is what I think... the more you agonize over who is going to make the first move, etc... the worse its going to get (although it is pretty cute and innocent)...
So, next time you're together, lean in real close to tell him something, pause and look at him... does he look shell-shocked? Lean in and kiss him lightly, he'll more than likely respond back instantly and then whew! you got that out of the way! Good luck!
18. Don't slobber all over his mouth.
Make sure your breath doesn't smell.
19. it's really a NATURAL reaction
don't think about him too much
but if your sitting next to him ALONE just like lean your head on his shoulder and then just like kiss him like a peck
and then 10 minutes later do it again and slowly open your mouth.
anddd thats all the advice i can give you
20. well first practice in the mirror on how you will look so your lips wont be all BIG. Then try it with a teady bear so your doing it to something. then plan how your going to kiss him so like when hes eating, you dont just JUMP INTO HIS FACE and go smoochie and end up having like fries in your mouth.
21. do:
start slow
kiss
touch
have fun
do what you want to and what just feels right
dont:
jump him and go crazy attack mode...
22. cut an orange in half and try on it... i cant explain in detail... but dont slobber... and dont worry!
he hasnt made out either so you should both be fairly comfortable together, neither will think you're bad at kissing!
good luck and happy making out!
23. Sit close. Touch hands. Kiss him, softly. Touch cheeks. Kiss his neck. Stroke his hair. Close your eyes and enjoy what he's doing with his hands and lips. Kiss him some more. Hold him close. Relax and enjoy yourself. No hickies, please, they're tacky.
24. kiss him softly in the beginning and then you don't want to shove your tongue down his throat but only halfway in and then just go with the flow. Then you'll get the hang of it.
25. To be honest, i remember the first time I (got onto) made out with a girl. It just happened. Theres really not a right thing to do. Just dont go at it like a dog eating its food.
Start out slow. Just go and kiss him and if it feels right then pop a little tounge in.
Dont follow his lead.. WE ARE/WERE JUST AS NERVOUS AS YOU GUYS.
26. Practice kissing the back of your hand, or if yo have a best girlfriend and she want to practice too, that works. After that it depends upon how old you are.
27. OK. i was SO scared my first time too. =] but when it starts- there's nothing to it. not joking. it kinda comes naturally. lol. but justa couple things.
1) be sure to tilt your head so you dont bump heads or teeth.
2) dont choke the hell outta him with your tongue, only use a little.
trust me- easier than it seems...you'll get the hang of it. =] good luck.
28. i was gonna ask a question similar but i figured instead of losing points, i could see if anyone else asked anything similar and read the answers they got and go from that. Next time, try it, it's easier!!!!
29. I think this is something special, first kiss,first hug. This should only be ,between you and your man!
Slow down, and be patient .
It's about going through all these relationship things together!
Take care!
30. Sorry but I didn't have the Internet when i was your age and glad I didn't. Your going to have to accept the fact that there is no rule book and feeling awkward and unsure just comes with the territory; it's honestly part of the fun. Just don't rush into anything and take it slow it will all come naturally.
BTW: Get off my lawn!
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