so i have this friend whom i have known for a long time 3 yrs long and recently we started being intimate and i have developed feelings for him which i told him and he told me that we're just friends. So my problem is that he now calls me more than he used to and takes me out quite often and stuff which is quite confusing. Do you think he is playing games with me and if so what is his game
Answers:
1. leave him
2. If you are being "intimate", then he is probably taking you out more often so he can get with you more often.
Withhold sex! If he still wants to hang out, then maybe there is something there.
3. he likes you more than a friend, he is just unsure of how much. he is wondering and trying to figure out if he just likes you or loves you. it is a hard decision for him. give it some time and wait for his decition. once he knows how he feels, he will let you know. dont worry everything will be fine.
4. No games here. He's simply told you that he doesn't want a committed relationship with you. He wants to be free to date other women and that's perfectly OK. There was never any rule that he had to become your one and only boyfriend if you two started to fool around. The good news is that he likes you enough to want to fool around. Have fun while it lasts.
Bottomline, if you don't want to be in a non-committed relationship (which is called dating BTW), move on and find a guy who wants to get serious with you.
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