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I need girl Advise please help!!!!!!?

   
Ill try to keep it short. There is this girl i REALLY like. She is probably the most wanted girl in school. anyway, we are friends and she sits right behind me in Spanish class and i suddenly realized that ive known/liked her for 7 freaking years!!! She is finally single and im now thinking of doing something. My major problem is that im not what people consider "handsome/hot" and i have a weight issue which holds me back. I dont really talk to her out of class so im not that close wiht her Please give some advise on what i should do and help me out 10 points and all my thanx is up for grabs

Answers:

1. Place as much money as you can directly into your pants.

2. talk to her more

3. just walk up to her and ask if you can hang out during lunch, I know lots of Not on the lean side and they can date HOTT popular chicks(like me) if they want to they just have to show how much they like them.

4. Hey so I'm a little confused. You just realized you've liked her for 7 years? Wouldn't you know if you liked someone that long? But anyway the best thing you can do is be confident! My ex boyfriend wasn't exactly the hottest guy ever, and I never pictured myself being with him, but he had so much confidence and I ended up really liking who he was and not basing anything off looks. Don't let the 'most wanted girl in school' intimidate you!

5. dont worry abt your weight.. what matters most is the love you have for her..... cause some ppl might not matter abt weight and features.... pluck up some courage and talk to her...

6. My best advice on a situation like this one is to ask her out casually. Let her wonder if its a date or a friendship outing. After a couple of times of that, you should be able to see whether or not it can go somewhere, and you won't be damaging a friendship if it doesn't.

7. Dude.. no offense but you don't stand a chance. An okay looking, semi over-weight kid dating the hot, super popular, cheerleader type girl? Thats unrealistic my friend. High school is a b i t c h. I'm sorry, but your better off just keeping your distance and trying to get with girls more in your league. She is at the top of the food chain and you are way way way down below. She wants a pretty boy popular jock guy. That is how the system works brother. Take it like a man.

8. Ask her out sometime. Like for a casual setting outside of school. Get a small group together for the movies and when you see her in class, just turn around and say "hey a few of us are going to the movies wanna come? " Worse thing is she says no right? And you take a deep breath and let it go even if you don't want to. If she says yea...try focusing on being her friend first. And don't worry about your weight....there are alot of girls out there (my self included) that actually like a little chub :) Good Luck

9. HOWS TI GOIN MAN. MY NAME IS NICK AND I GOT A THING FOR U TO TELL HER. ONE DAY WHEN UR IN CLASS OR WHEN SHE IS BY HERSELF IN THE HALLWAY ASK HER IF U CAN TALK TO HER ABOUT SOMETHING IF U GUYS ARE CLOSE IN THE CLASSROOM THAN SHELL TALK TO U OUTSIDE THE CLASSROOM TOO. WHEN U GET THE CHANCE TO TALK TO HER BE GENTLE WHEN U TELL HER AND LET HER KNOW HOW U FEEL. IF U R A GREAT AND SOCIAL PERSON AND SHE TURNS U DOWN TELL HER THAT ITS HER LOSE AND NOT URS BECAUSE THIS GIRL SOUNDS LIKE IS HAS BEEN IN SOME BAD RELATIONSHIPS AND MAYBE U COULD BE THE ONE THAT SHE WANTS TO HAVE IN A RELATIONSHIP

10. im glad you ask for a grils opinion becouse thats scary. other wise id say like be your self get a better self image you like exsersise and be clean and dress nise and be respectfull. when you get older and learn that it isent so mutch as the who as ther is a some one to share with.

11. if you've always been a nice person to her then it should not be a problem...not all girls are shallow to only look at how a guy looks...if she's a nice girl, she would in fact overlook the physical qualities of a guy and go for someone with a great personality....you've known her for 7 years...then i don't think it would be awkward to invite her for a movie or a day in an amusement park....if you think that's too big a step, then go and invite her to get ice cream...engage her in a friendly conversation....by doing this, you have already taken your first step and things should just fall into place...good luck...

12. Dude, its like this: You have two (immediate) options: 1. Go and talk to her, ask her out, do something. Any interaction is better than none. If she doesnt go for it, at least you know you tried... 2. Dont say anything because you are too shy. If you take this option you will always wonder what if... I am very shy myself, so I know what you are going through. But believe me when I say this will eat you apart every day you dont do anything. If you are looking for some magic advice to make this girl like you, know this - there is none. Sure you could do something that will get her attention, but it is the real you that will make something special happen. Bottom line is, dont change yourself for anyone. Who knows, the real you could be exactly what she is looking for...

13. Start exercising and ask the girl out. If she disses you, drop her like a hot potato. Still exercise even if you feel severely depressed about it. As soon as you exercise more and lose the weight, you'll build more confidence and meet other people. Don't stay fixated on one person. Have a HAREM! Be the DUDE!!

14. The fact that you guys are friends is a good sign, however, you have to ask yourself "If she thought we would be good as more than friends, would she have acted on that thought by now?". If you think that she may feel the same that you feel for her then I would start hanging out with her more and seeing where it goes. As you may know, good guys usually get screwed over and you seem like one of those "good guys". If you bring up liking her and she doesnt feel the same, things will probably never be the same between you again. You need to ask yourself "Do I take the chance and risk losing a friendship or do I remain friends with her and wait and see if she ever makes her move?". There really isnt an easy answer to this when it comes to liking your friends. You seem like a really sweet guy and if this girl doesnt work out you will find someone who respects you and likes you for you regardless of whether or not you think youre "handsome"...there are many girls who will. I promise you.

15. Before you get to that level you should probably ask her to hang out. Then when you guys get comfortable, ask her out!

16. show her you want to be more than just friends, because once your on tha infamous friend train thats all she will see you as, definately start doing social things after school, wkends, ect be respectful but forward. another thing dont act different around her when your with your friends as in dont ignore her when your with them always be sweet to her and show her you care! =)

17. start by doing little things, like helping her in finding a book, etc. in short, always be there for her. then, if you feel you've become closer than before, ask her to go out with friends. then if things go right, invite her alone. dont make yourself too obvious at first because if she likes handsome/hot men, she will easily dump you. just do it in a slow pace. also, if you consider losing weight, then do, so you could be more confident (if your not). good luck. :D

18. Hay bro don't ever underestimate yr self under any circumstances cus yr more than what you think ur. It doesn't matter what size ur or how gorgeous ur the important thing is that yr in love with this girl and you kinda feel like you are way less for her but ur not. I'm sure everyone feels this way whey they fall in love and its pretty normal. So with out further a due these is what you should do, you can simply start being close with her by asking how she likes taking Spanish class and so on and of course once you kinda get to know her outside of class y'll discover something y don't know about her outside of class and once you check that if you think this the girl for you then you can ask her out without worrying about ur weight or looks cus i'm sure you have everything what any girl would look for, you just don't see it ur self cus ur in love. Hay good luck and have fun schooling.)

19. ok. you are not close to her, don't talk a lot to her, has got weight issue and is not considered hot or handsome. and she is the most wanted girl in school. you sound really negective. there must be some good points that you can describe yourselve. maybe you can play a music instrument, you can sing, you are gentleman etc. think of the good points and it motivates you. and also undo the bad points. not close, then be close. don't talk alot, then find common topics to make conversation. weight issue then exercise and look good, she is the most wanted girl so you got to act fast. build up the confidence in you. dress good and look good, present yourself well and treat ladies nice. girls like it when guys are really gentleman to them. start by being a friend. if you accept you as a friend, it means she does not dislike you then you can proceed to dating her. then ask her to be your girl when timing is right. you have liked her for 7 years. stop thinking and start carrying out some actions. start now. as long as you have tried your best, there is no regrets. cheers.:)

20. Just be yourself. Ask her if she'd like to get a shake after school. (Or something else you know she likes Ice-E, Slushee) your treat, something that helps to form a stronger friendship. Not a date, keep it light. Then ask her again. Then out to eat. Work your way up to ask her out to the movies. Girls and women love a guy who can make them laugh, so just be yourself and let it unfold in front of you. Don't worry about how people look at you, you should be looking out, look out at the world and at people. Women were taught to be very self-concious about their weight. I was very slim, I am now heavier and happier. Proud of my curves. It means you like to eat vs skinny people who have a mental problem (anorexia in the making) afraid of eating. I had a child at 14 and didn't feel very popular and didn't feel like i was dating material or that anyone was serious about me. So, go ahead and compare your situation to mine. I tried to return to 2 different high schools. It was the same scenario. It had the same effect on students as well as teachers. "What you've got a child!" at the first high school it was my bestfriend telling everyone. The PE teacher made me do more situps than the others. So, it seemed. It felt like I had the plague. Then onto the other highschool. This one had a program for young mothers, where they watched the children while the mothers went to school, same thing once people found out I had a child. I would walk down the hallway and some of the students would ask me "You have a baby" only my son was more than a toddler. I didn't know about molestation/statutory rapist then. I was chased and beaten by a girl gang who had thier brother drug and molest/rape me several times. I've moved from my town, where I grew up and my friends are, to another town. I wish I had the experiences that you are having. Enjoy your nervousness, the butterflies will go away. Good luck to you and your new friend to be.