We've only been together a few months, we're both young, 25, and he mentions marriage lots. Not like me and him marriage, just seems to like talking about the institution of marriage, and how when he does it he only wants to do it once, and how it owuld be nice someday etc. What does this mean? I thought men hated the mention of marriage?! WHy bring it up?
Answers:
1. not all men hate marrige or talking about it . maybe he sees u as a wife in the future and he is trying to get a read on u
2. He wants to marry you. Not all men are sex monging maniacs who seek only sexual pleasure.
Agree with him, and pretty soon you'll notice something sparkling on your finger.
3. Wow you are a lucky girl. The fact that he is even talking about it is a sign that he thinks the you could be the one. Some guys are ready to settle down even if they are in there mid 20's. The question is, does it bother you? It sounds like it does, or at the very least struck a nerve somewhere. If a woman is in a relationship with the man of her dreams, and he talked about marriage I assume she would not question it. But you are right to have suspicions since he is talking about marriage so soon..........3 months is pretty weird if you ask me. He could be doing this to gauge your reaction to long term commitment.
4. When guys talk about marriage they think that you and he have become so close that its okay to talk about this kind of stuff. It doesn't necessarily mean that he wants to get married at that very moment, he just wants your input on it.
5. It is obvious that he cares for you alot. he is thinking about the future and what it holds being with the one. YOU! :)
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