I'm 34, he's 27 so there's a 7 year difference, but I don't really notice any age difference and neither do my friends who are in their 30s - well, other than the fact that he's never seen an episode of "The Cosby Show" or "Family Ties" because he was only 5 years old, heh.
Bottom line is that we get along, like each other, are both financially independent, etc. However, not that I'm wanting to get married and settle down within the next year or anything, but is it possible for a guy in his late 20s to have the desire to settle down or do they still want to play the field? I could ask him, but at this early stage, it might make him freak out and run for the hills...
Answers:
1. Test out his maturity level when he's angry or upset. Often times this is where guys lack the most in maturity compared to girls.
2. The bottom line is age isn't anything but a number, that we somehow have managed to give an over valued meaning to. I have been with a younger guy for quite a while now. And I am the happiest I have ever been. You WILL be happily amazed by this guy, not all guys are immature and have to "Play the Field". Don't let something as meaningless and trivial as a guys age ruin your shot at happiness! =)
3. wow......nothing is wrong with it.....AS LONG that he accepted your past i don't see any problem......i'm in a same situation my (not sure) bf?? his younger than i do his only 22yrs old and i'm about to be 30yrs old this month.....but he look more older than i do..lol
his younger so it just mean that he has less experience than i do.....so now my past is a big issue for him...now my relationship w/him is about to be ruin cz of that.......just imagine while having u know?? he likes to ask me who's better?? i mean while u are on your concentration he will ask u that...that's kinda drive u crazy isn't?? but other than that i don't have any problem...any how all of us are different so maybe your will work out who knows??? just always remember loving someone is always taking that risk...hey good luck..
4. yeah see what and how he act when he is mad
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