i really want to spend Friday night with my boyfriend because both of us a free and neither of us have to be up early saturday morning for once. but he has a friend who just sits at home by himself if my boyfriend is doing something else that night so most times my boyfriend has his friend come along with him to whatever he's doing because he feels sorry for him. i really want my boyfriend to myself tho! how do i get him to leave his other friend at home for once and spend the night with me?
Answers:
1. Tell him straight! I want you to myself
2. tell him you want him to yourself... tell him you have a surprise.
there better be a surprise though.
3. get one of your girlfriends to go out with him.
blind date sort of thing!
4. tell your boyfriend how you feel about it and then ask can you and him judt hsve the night to yourselves
5. Just tell him that this is one time you want to be alone with him. If he says he wants he friend to tag along, just tell him that this is a chance that doesn't come around too often.
6. u can try asking him to tell his friend to stay home and go out with him.
7. Tell him to? Not meanly of course. Just ask if it can be just the two of you. Say you understand that he dislikes leaving his friend behind, but also tell him that his friend needs to learn that there is a world beyond your boyfriend, or he's going to be attached like this for the rest of his life.
Tell your boyfriend to integrate him into his other friendships so that the friend has others to hang out with too.
8. Reminds me of that "You, Me, and Dupree" film, although I thought that was a pile of poo..
I know it sounds a bit harsh. But tell your boyfriend, you want some "Alone time" and you can't get that while his friend's there, and if love making time isn't on the menu, offer him the chance to visit his friend - believe me, he won't go, especially if something else is for dessert ;)
9. maybe in your next conversation just say, "can we get together next weekend, i'd really like some alone time with you" and hopefully he will get the pic that you want it to be just the 2 of you.
10. do you mean you will sleep with your boy friend in this night
11. well don't be so demanding, but ask him if he can leave his friend at the house, that is for the night so the two of you can have the night by yourselves, and see what he says.
12. If you have been dating for a while, deal with it. He is obviously a compassionate person and cares for his friends. You should consider this a valuable trait (if this is a serious relationship). I know it is probably very frustrating at times, but you either like him for who he is or you don't.
As for a solution to your problem....How about setting the friend up with someone you know for the same night. If you really want some alone time then your first priority should be finding him a girlfriend (unless he is gay).
If this is unacceptable for what ever reason, look to a solution that benefits both sides. You needing alone time, and the friend needing something to do.
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