I really like my boyfriend, but we are long distance. We are seeing each other less and less because we are busy with college. For example, he will be in another country both this thanksgiving, winter, spring, and summer breaks, and I will only be able to see him once this month. I like him, but I just don't think it's worth keeping us going if we won't be able to spend time together and have an actual relationship. I certainly don't want him to sacrifice his grades or academics because of me.
I told him that I had to tell him something (break up with him ) when he was visiting me recently, but never got around to it. He asked me online what I wanted to say. But, I didn't have the heart to break up with him online or over the phone. He's a really nice, caring person and I'm sure he can find someone closer in distance to him.
Answers:
1. 4 hours ago
Should I talk to him about it then? And ask him if he thinks it's worth it?
2. If you decide to break up with your boyfriend do it in person. It will hurt him more if you do it by phone or email. At least you get a chance to see him compared to my long distant love. I wish you the best.
3. If you really love him, you shouldn't break up. im with a girl that i won't be able to see until i turn 18 and move to where she lives. you get to see him. if people can love just by letters and phone calls then you can do it seeing him ever once and a while. don't mess this up. my ex hates her self for the same reason and she wants me back. im taken so she can't. don't mess it up.
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