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My friend stabbed me in my back?

   
Ok, so I told one of my friends that I like this one guy and then like a week later she said he asked her out and now they are going out. She new I liked him and every time someone says something about it I get really upset. What do I do?

Answers:

1. Find someone else. Obviously, he liked her better.

2. You have never been with the guy so move on.

3. Let it pass and forget about the guy. Find a better one there are many out there.

4. what a sucky friend... if i were u, i would tell her off

5. Pretend like you're happy for her. She'll get bored and dump him. Better yet, he'll dump her. Then you can laugh at her.

6. tell her that what she did was kinda shallow, and she shouldve at least mentioned it to you before she accepted.

7. I don't think she's a true friend of yours. Real friends don't do that to each other. You should cut your losses and find someone more worthy of your friendship.

8. tell your friend how you feel about her and him and if she tries to talk about him when your around just get up and leave. good luck

9. Move on, find a new friend if you can't deal with her.

10. Let it go. Let her go too. That is not what I call a good friend. If she liked this guy at the time you told her you liked him, she should have come clean and told you that. Either way it goes, it does not put her in a good light.

11. One Answer. Start Rumors.

12. kill them both. noone can be happy and there can be only one

13. No need to fret. You now know what kind of woman she is and there is no need to continue to associate yourself with her anymore. If the guy you like, likes her then that tells you what type of women he's intersted in. Karma will catch up with her ;)

14. Tell your friend how you feel and what she did to make you feel bad see what she says, sounds like she wasn't that great of a friend to begin with. She broke the code you don't go out with someone your friend is crushing on that's like dating an ex.

15. get a another boyfriend. He's not the only boy in the world. He also asked your frieind not you so while you may like him, the feeling might not be mutual.

16. dont say anything to anybody or go ask them first b4 anybody else duz.... ?duh?

17. You should seek medical attention, wound from a knife stabbing can be fatel....

18. Get Her Back! maybe spread a rumor..... or even date someone she may have liked, Or even better date her brother if she has one!

19. Before you leave your friendship, talk it over with your friend and tell her how you feel. Odds are, she would be sorry but wouldn't give up the guy. So just move on and don't let this stand in the way of you or your friendship.

20. Learn. This is the problem with people dating young. They think that if someone is 'cute' they should be dating. The real reason we date is to find out what kind of person we want to marry. Obviously the boy you found to be nice, cute or whatever thought your 'friend' was cute, nice or maybe 'easy'. Wait around for awhile and see what happens. Your friend maybe isn't sure of the meaning of a friend. Be a friend and support her, who knows this may be your future husband.

21. dont trip off dat, that just means on to da next boy. maybe she should've said no becuz she knew your feelings for him, but i mean dats your friend and if that was me i would be pissed but got over it in like 2 days. lol thats just me.

22. she was never your friend friends respect each other- get rid of her and be glad that you know what she is a fraud

23. wow that seems really mean i think you should let her know that what she did wasn't cool and that that's not really being a true friend but you should try to put it in a nice way so she'll understand what you mean you should also try not to get mad when people bring them up hope i helped a lot

24. Hmm. This one will take some time to get over. But just try to let it go. Move on. If it was "meant to be" something will happen between your "friend" and that guy, and you two may end up together. Sorry for this extremely old line, but... There are other fish in the sea!

25. I understand samething happened to me. My friend knew i like this one guy and she started flirting with him behind my back. But don't get too mad once you think about it, it's kind of pathetic to see someone going for what you want. But don't do anything it's just making the problem even enormous. So just let them go out, she's not a friend if she stabbed you in a back she's not even consider a friend. Just let her do her thing, and you do your's. You shouldn't waste your time on your so called friend. She isn't, she's just there to make your life a living hell, just be nice to her dont' be too clingy and tell her stuff you cannot trust her.

26. Gal, in real life... it happens.. It is cruel...Learn to be strong and wise when making friends. If she is your good friend, then you need to consider your friendship carefully.. Do learn to protect yourself too. take care