There's this girl at my school who nobody likes. She yells at everybody and is rude. Everybody tries to be nice to her, but she's stubborn. I think she would be a good friend, but she has a really hard time making friends. I don't think she understands other people's feelings. Any advice?
Answers:
1. Approach her and strike up a conversation. If she does not give you the time of day, then don't waste your time.
2. well try to be her friend and if that don't work just leave her lone obviusly she don't want to be bother
3. Sounds like she has other issues. Maybe that's the way everyone treats each other in her family. Maybe she's afraid to let her guard down and be hurt. Maybe she's like that for attention. All you can really do is just keep being nice to her. It'll hurt her more to be ignored by everyone. So, keep on including her in activities and trying to be a friend to her. Maybe when she starts to realize how nice everyone is around her, she'll loosen up and finally be nice back.
4. well what i would do is get to know her a bit more then i guess when the time is right you should tell her the truth but be careful because you don't want to lose any friends trust me ive been there done that and its not kool
5. i use to go to school with a girl like that. most people left her alone. but when i saw her in the hallways, i just said hi to her. i think some people are like that b/c they dont want to let others in. they may have been hurt or abused or bossed around in the past by other friends. Just be nice to her. She might start opening up to you.
6. Well if she is mean and rude to people thats why she has no friends and proly deserves that. If you want to help her approach her and start a conversation with her see how she treats you.
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