ok heres the deal this girl just broke up from a long term relationship and we are very good friends but she is still liking him and some1 else at the same time and that some1 else isnt me how do i like ask her if she wants to hang out but just as friends without ruining our friendship
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1. 9 hours ago
and like she tells me how this new guy she lieks will do stuff for her that he wont enjoy but it will make her happy and i could do that but... i dont know
2. I am so sorry!!
3. If it's just as friends then what's the problem?
4. dude once you're in the friend zone (which appears to be your situation) it is hard to get out of there.
For one, be pleasant to girls but don't be too nice, too accomodating, too accessible, too easy. Are you getting my point? You should be hanging with the guys more and stay busy, when you talk to girls be cool, but somewhat indifferent. The trick is to find that balance of confidence and humility. If you seem like you're in demand with friends and fun to be around, the females will take notice. Don't be too desperate, many of the girls are turned off by guys who show too much desperation in their eyes.
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