Ok so we became friends a few months ago at work. A while after she started acting weird. She would first start calling my name accross the store in a laughing way and making up nick names with other female co-workers. One time we where with our friends asking each other who we had a crush on in a joking manner, but then she turns towards me asking me who my crush was with a serious look. Then she said some song that was playing reminded her of me. Since then she would hit me or touch me for no reason. Sometimes she would even want to see my hand for something ( which I never really understood). One day I kinda ignored her so she txt me at 1:00 am telling me i was being mean! Other times she would try to tell me something but then say "nevermind" and wonder off smiling. She would ask me if I wanted to hang out with our friends or go somewhere with them. But at the same time she would seem to get mad for no reason. I doubt it's a crush cuz she has a bf!
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1. 2 hours ago
im thinking she just want attention becauses alot of guys like her but I haven't given her any kind of attetion in that way!
2. Dude she wants in your pants.
She's obviously bored of her BF, like most women get to that stage at some time.
3. she may like attention the question is do you like her just cuz she got a bf doesnt mean she cant be crushin '
4. She likes to be in control of everything and everybody.
5. well: she sounds like a flirt, tell her to BACK OFF if your not interested in her and if she stats being annoying and stuff
6. wow..she would be high mantinence...stay away from her if you can ...........i think she likes you but she is with someone else.................. her personality sounds abit clicky...you wouldnt know from 1 minutes to the next what mood she was in
7. oh, adrian. just because the girl is taken doesnt take away her ability to flirt. like you said, alot of boys like her, so she is probably used to the attention. it sounds like youre not flirting back, which is probably making her like you (most people want what they dont have, right?) and feeding that confusing, flirtatious fire of hers. dont take her too seriously, and make sure not to flirt back. you know she's taken, and that would do bad things to your integrity. have fun at work!
8. handle her carefully...
she is playign adouble game..
she is really bugged of from her BF.. and expect some thing or some kind of attention.. if u give attention or go for her.. u are going to lose...
dont think from heart..otherwise u will suffer..
this is jst an advice.. i dont know the girl and u as well. so dont take it as comment or warning.. i ve experienced so i told u
keep going and be practical..
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9. He likes you ! :)
10. She is one of those girls that have to get all of the attention. Just ignore the games.
11. You hit the nail on the head, she wants attention. She is used to getting it, and she is not getting what she wants from you so she says you are mean. She is flirting with you (touching you, grabbing your hand, dedicating songs to you) She wants you to "want" her. is is a little flirting game girls like to play. I know now that I am 25 and over all that teenage stuff that it was so silly, but that is the way it works. She likes you, she wants you to like her too. Regardless if she has a BF or not, she still wants you to "want" her. She wants to have guys drooling over her thinking "Gosh, her boyfriend is so lucky to have a girl like her!"
I would just be yourself, let her get annoyed. If she is willing to break up with her BF and maybe be with you, worry about it then.
Good Luck!
PS... sorry to all the poor guys i tortured with this same teenage ritual!.. how silly!..hehehe
12. Oh, i c, one of those girls...I know someone like her, trust me she just wants the attention. Don't fall for her, she'll just get bored of you once she has u. She's like a little kid, she wants what she can't have, but once she gets it, it's boring to her. Good luck! :)
13. yes...you've already identified the solution to your problem. she's a flirt and an attention seeker. you were not paying any special attention to her, and that very thing has hurt her ego.
what YOU want is important. if you like her, you may respond...and if you don't, just ignore her. do as you were doing.
14. Shes a tease and a flirt and not loyal to her boyfriend at all. Shes bad news.
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