I feel like crawling into a ball and crying my eyes out for days.
This guy I have been totally into has completely dropped all contact out of no where! When he was over he gave me all the right signals... he never even tried to get in my pants. I have no idea what I did to make him steer away, but he has. He doesnt text, and when I do he completely avoids me.... I asked him to hang out again and he pretty much ignored my question.
He wants nothing to do with me, it's clear. It's totally not the same signals I was getting before.
So how do I get over him? I have no idea what the hell I did! I was literally head of heels for this guy. It's not everyday I feel so strongly about someone. Maybe I came off too strong or something. I am backing off now from him, it will help me get over it. But please help, I have no idea who to talk to about this.
Answers:
1. i know this is no help but WOW! i am going through the SAMEEEEE thing! hope you get some good advice =[
2. Who freakin knows man....I quit trying to figure out dudes a long time ago..
3. I think it's hardest when people leave us and then never tell us why. It makes you wonder what YOU did, but who said you did anything? Maybe it's the way HE'S feeling...but you'll never know that if he doesn't let you know. sometimes men don't like to confront women with what's going on because they think we'll fly off the handle. You have to admit--sometimes we do!
If he has nothing to do with you, then there's really nothing you can do. If you ask him why he won't talk to you, it's just going to make the situation more difficult. If you're up to it, you could always text him and tell him that you're going to leave him alone, but if he ever needs a friend, you'll always be there whenever he needs/wants you. Then leave it at that and try to stay away as much as you can.
I don't know what your situation is, but if you have the opportunity to "accidentally run into him" one day, purposely be casual when you see him. Wave hello, but don't stand around and chat. See what his reaction is. does he run away from you and try to hide? Does he say hello back?
After some time, maybe he'll come around...but remember the he might not. Don't take it personally--could be that he just was feeling too much like this was a relationship, and he's not ready for one yet.
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