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I'm in love with my best friends boyfriend. Do I tell her? Do i tell him? She gets pissed becuase he flirts with me so much.

Answers:

1. Hmmm. Tell him.

2. don't do it........!!!!!!

3. how would you like it if your bestfriend and your bf did that behind your back. you're a low low person

4. wow! i have no clue

5. dont tell and dont act on it

6. wow tell them both.

7. don't say anything! please. snap out of it.

8. Tell her...don't let the fliriting go any futher then she would really be hurt! Be a good friend let her know

9. I wouldn't use the word "Love" so carelessly. Chances are you have a crush on him or like his looks, i say you don't tell her, it'll pass anyway.

10. you need to find Your Own guy, and leave hers alone.

11. NO! You will ruin a friendship over a dude and that is just mean and silly!

12. You cannot really keep both your friend and him at the same time. Who would you rather keep?

13. I wouldn't tell anyone. It could ruin your friendship with her! -But after all, it is your choice! Good Luck and hang in there!!!

14. idk what u should do but i would tell him first so ur friend doesnt get any more mad than she is when he flirts but tell him and c what he says then if he likes u back then talk it over with him.

15. well...I guess since she gets so angry, you might not want to tell him after they break up. but theres another side: if she gets mad if you tell him while he's still going out w/ her, she's probably not being a very good friend to you. its best not to tell them though until they split, and ur friend isnt so sensitive about the break up. then u tell him, but think about how you would feel in ur friend's position.

16. if you value your friendship (and you should - good friends are hard to find - boyfriends, esp. at your age, will come and go.) you will say nothing and respect your friend by NOT engaging in flirting or any other inappropriate behavior with her boyfriend. Think how you would feel if the situation were reversed.

17. i would keep it to yourself cause in the end you just might lose your friend over a guy !

18. You might regret this very much. Having him will never be worth how crummy you'll feel betraying a girlfriend.

19. If you want to lose her friendship, then tell either of them. If you value her friendship, then tell neither.

20. i would tell both i kno u could mess uo a friendship but i have to let her kno

21. tell him definitely do not tell her shell get mad at you and stay mad_trust me_ if they are good together leave it alone for awile and they might break it themselves

22. i would wait a while and sort out ur feelings, it could jus be an infatuation.i had tht problem too, it happens. but i found out i didnt really love him

23. sure you can tell your friend but make sure you tell her that you won't get involved with him and MEAN IT!!!!! it may be hard but it is the right thing to do since she is your best friend!! but I wouldn't tell him at least not while him and your best friend are going out!!!! hopefully they won't last long and then you can have him!!! not to be mean to your friend or anything!! so good luck!!!

24. whats more important your friendship with her or a relationship with him? i mean if you tell her you could risk losing that friendship. if you tell him you could have him break your friends heart. soo hmm whats the better choice. personally i say leave it alone. shes with him and if he wanted to be with you he would have ended it with her to be with you. if anything your just someone he can mess with. he might now even see you as something like that but whatever for me its hoe's over bro's. friendship is better than relationships. so yeah whatever.

25. karma-you figure it out

26. Stay away from it. If she truly is your best friend you shouldn't tell either one of them. If you are meant to be together, it will happen but do not be the cause of your friends pain. What goes around comes around. Boys come and go....true friends lasts forever.

27. I dont know it depends on what is more important to you your friendship or a relationship with him. you decide if you choose that your friendship is more important than let her have him they probably wont be together forever anyways so you can have a chance with him then. On the other hand if you would rather have a relationship with him sooner ....than go for it! all is fair in love and war!

28. well which one do u care about more???? which one have u liked more?? the chose is urs but is a boy worth a friendship.

29. Your idiot, there's million o guys out there. she's your best friend, your not the kind of trust full friend.

30. Does he like you? Will your friend care? Do you want to lose your friendship because of a guy? My advice is just be friends with your friends boyfriend and find someone else Or... Make him jealous!