What will happen to men and women like this?

1. People are afraid to commit. There is alot of temptation in this world.

2. what will happen is that they will constantly seek a problem stress free relationship, and they will keep changing mates whenever they don't like something, but in reality they will not find happiness, nor will they ever be able to work out anything needed to maintain a marriage, because they are too busy running away from what doesn't suite them.

3. I think it's easy in this day and age to give up on relationships because they seem not to pay off at all. It seems like no matter what we do, we're going to be destined to be apart anyhow, so we might as well have a good time, right? That might be what's going on. I don't know what will happen to these people except that they might be miserable for the rest of their lives. It's sort of like a self-fulfilling prophecy. If they think that relationships will be bad, they will be. But if they go into it giving it their everything, then things might go more smoothly...though still experience a few problems at the very least.

4. Broffel? Never heard of that. Oh you mean Brothel. First don't generalize guys because I know lots of girls who fall into that same category. The problem is sometimes marriage is made on a whim or the person you married transitions into a she-devil as has happened with numerous of my friends. Girls get married and they change. They get a divorce and the mother gets $2,000 a month in alimony and $2,000 a month in child support, and yet the mother refuses the Father's visitation rights. See generalization works both ways.

5. I know of many women who do the same thing, its not a gender thing. Ask any guy who has worked in a c--k bar (I dont know any other name for it) and they'll tell you that women act much "worse" than guys do. Alot more goes on. "They seem to not understand the importance of forever in a marriage and their women have no clue to what they are up to." I dont think we as a generation (and one or so before mine) truly understand anything beyond our own wants and needs (not all, but the vast majority). Part of its maturity, which hopefully comes with experience, but another part is how often we're told to "be happy" "look out for number one," etc. I think the selfishness of the western culture is largely to blame for this. I mean after all, if you're not completely happy its "them" not you. This is what we're told from about "yay high" till adulthood.

6. it's not just the guys who cheat, women are just better at it, so you end up spending your life raising kids that aren't even biologically yours.

7. I believe that marriage as it has been for many years will not continue. Certainly there are many people that are hurting because of the many opportunities they have to cheat a little. Our morals have drifted towards the "if it feels good do it". There is some good things from all of this though. It will stop a lot of abuse to women that have been kept somewhat like a prisoner for years. Even in this area there are was a farmer that took the phone with him when he went to town. So, some will be better off and some will be hurting.

8. Whats a broffel? ooooh brothel , thought maybe it was a new religion. Once again do NOT just blame the men sweetheart , women do it as well , it's the same as the 1 last fling (sex) before commitment of marriage both men and women do it . And wth has forever got to do with going out to strip clubs?Seriously if this is all you have to worry about then dont get married because much more important issues show up after marriage and if you can not handle your spouse male/female attending strip club's , liking/watching porn then your not mature enough to be married in the 1st place. The 1 in 3 marriage's you term as ending in divorce are not divorcing just because of porn and strip clubs seriously if they are again I reitterate my statement their not mature enough to be married at all , as for brothel's being used , if the man needs a brothel , then the wife has major issues and should divorce the idjit. I'm not commenting on the cheating issue again its becoming real old real fast for me.

9. I believe that what is happening is called the Moral Decline of our country. You can look at it as evolution but it appears that we are evolving backwards. This new, all about me, generation is all about what feels good at the moment. If you think about it, it used to be a symbol of status to be a stay at home mother. A husband was proud of his ability to take care of his family and it would reflect poorly on him if his wife, "had" to work. Now, stay at home mom's are fighting the stereotype that they are, "Just a Mom." I believe that young people today are suffering from not having been parented. Their role models are movie stars and athletes, not Mom and Dad. People that are now in their 40's or 50's had a good chance of having a stay at home mom or at least a two parent home. People in their 30's are lucky if they had a two parent home and more than likely did not have a stay at home mom. The young people in their 20's today, I feel sorry for. Many of them have raised themselves. If they have parents, their parents were probably so tired from work that they spent very little time teaching their children. There is no, "forever" in marraige anymore. The morals and values just aren't there anymore. There have been strip club's and brothels since the beginning of time. There always will be. Your young friends have to decide for themselves what is and is not acceptable. They need to agree on what they are going to teach their children, not just wether or not they are going to have them. I also think that your 20 something year old female friends are better off with early 30 something year old men when it comes to marriage. It takes men longer to settle down. It takes men longer to mature emotionally. It's more likely that they will have the club mentality out of their system and will be able to settle down with wife and family. Testosterone has a lot to do with it. They can't always help themselves. Men have hormonal and chemical changes going on all the time, they just don't talk about it. You can tell if a man has high testosterone levels later in life becuase it causes them to go bald. Go figure. I hope that you continue to believe in marraige and fidelity. It is possible to have a successful marraige. You just have to surround yourself with people that think the way you do.

10. People have sex too early, get married too early.