Okay,well i am kind of dating my best friends ex! and i REALLYY like him,like alot! And she broke up with him becuase she said she got tired of him and that he was annoying. and so SHE broke up with him. And now she is a little upset becuase i am dating him. and i alwaysed liked him. And i never wanted to break them up. And so she is like getting jealous and angry. And i thought she would be happy for me! And be like yeah im not mad. But she is like putting me down. And saying yeah he is just using you. He doesnt really like you. And i think that that is like REALLY mean. And my other best friend is telling me to ignore her. And she is saying like they broke up she should be happy. And my tha best friend is happy for me but my other is angry.And YES i did ask her if it was okay and she said yeah deff.! But still What should i do?
Answers:
1. I think you should ask yourself some questions, for example, how important is this guy to you? and how close of a friend is this friend? If she is closer, then perhaps you should rething dating her ex. even if she was the one who broke up with him, I think you should put yourself in her position and see how you would feel if it happened to you. I'm sure many great guys will come and go, but friends are way more important. Also, if he wasn't good enough for her, then why should you settle for sloppy seconds? Go and find someone even better!
2. how many times are you going to ask??
just date him. tell your friend you dont want to loose her friendship... see them apart
3. at the end of the day it really depends on yourself......if you fink he is the one who is gonna make you happy ...and if you feel comfortable with him its fine....Yes you do need to make sure he does not hurt you .........so its upto you really....if you are confident about him then THATS IT.....
4. ohh my really its a no go zone................... but if you are really attracted to him what can you do...............i dont think your freindship will last with her............she is really hurt thats why she talking to you the way she does................ its all about finding the right balance in your life..............if you thought she was a true friend to you then you wouldnt of even given that guy a second thought................. either that or you out your own feelings above that of others ...... i wish you the best of luck sorting this one out................you need think of whats more important to you ...your freindship with her or your relationship with this guy
5. Boys will always weave in and out of your life...friends..once you lose them..they never come back. Boys should never, and I mean never, come between two best friends! DUMP the boy! There's plenty of other boys in the sea, that might be A LOT more better than your best friend's ex. I'm sorry to say that, but that's just the truth. I hope you make the right decision
6. You sound so like Vicky Pollard from Little Britain! Sorry lol
She did say that it was ok. If you are happy with this guy then great. You are not responsible for your friend's happiness - she is!
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