just a little paranoid about it.
Answers:
1. Email me, I am adorable. :)
2. Your only 19. If you were, say, 40, they would make a movie out of it
:P)
3. Listening to 'N' Sync too much.
4. nothing
5. Have you looked in a mirror?
6. look at your personality, outgoingness, and attractiveness
simple as that.
7. well mabe u need to be more involved with the girls, get to kno each one, look for one ur interested in and maybe she'll come to you, but sense ur 19 i wouldnt just pick a random girl, u should find a friend and then start to lover her more and then eventually it will all tie in
8. You might be doing something right. Everyone who's in relationships are having all kinds of problems.
9. spending too much time on yahoo asnwers :)
10. stop masterbating women can sense that, when you masterbate you lose alot of testosterone i think thats how you spell it and women want a manly man
11. Hey.
I'm gonna take a wild guess and say you're quite a shy guy?
Well my advice is be more open, and if you are around girls, speak to them like you would your friends, don't be really shy around them, use good manners and treat women with respect, trust me they'll like you for that.
Also women love men who are clean and smell really nice.
12. we don;t know..brush your teeth?, deoderant maybe?, are you broke?.. got beat up too much in school? are you a bully? butt ugly? hell..tell us something?
13. Why ? It means you avoided alot of awkward mistakes that come from being too young to be in an adult type relationship. Hopefully you have learned from seeing your friends mistakes (some of which they probably still kick themselves for).
14. Put yourself out there. Be more sociable. Have confidence in yourself...that's what makes a guy sexy! =)
15. Dude, my partner is 32 and I'm only his second g/f... (and the first one only lasted 4 months). And you know what? He's the sweetest, FUNNIEST guy!
I have no idea what it is... maybe you're hanging out with guys who are super charming and spunky and therefore get the chicks first?? Maybe you're too nice????
16. When you go up to them, do you seem nervous? do you lack confidence? Do you have good hygeine? ...idk, these are just some things girls seem to really notice. Just be patient, i'm sure your ok. OH are you just too selective?? maybe this could be it...once again, idk..good luck!!
17. Don't be paranoid it frightens the girls. Be bold look them in the eye, kiss their hand and put it to our heart and say it is a pleasure to meet you and look them in the eye the whole time. If she smiles she likes you.
18. Hmmm.. i'd say you're just not putting yourself out there! You're 19 so you can go out to clubs etc. Put on a nice pair of jeans (be sure not to wear them too high) and a shirt (anything BUT button up..) and go and TALK to girls! Let them know you exist.
19. My son was 20 1/2 before he got his first girlfriend. He really never dated that much before then. He always hung out with the guys. All of the sudden, out of the blue, he met Leah and they are great together, very in love and happy and have been together for 1 and 1/2 years. Don't worry, when you least expect it, it will happen. Good luck
20. Finding a girl is like finding employment. You have to network to meet girls. You have to go out and make friends. You need to get into a club or hobby to meet people. You need to build a myspace or eharmony account to meet more people.
Pay attention to girl number one. She is offering her contribution.
21. theres no problem about not having a gf yet, i nkow its what everyone says but there is the right girl out there for you. if not go out and have fun the best line if you are looking in a pub or club or something is
"hey im just leaving now but i just had to ask if you wanted to get a coffeee or something its just your really pretty and i didnt want to let this chance pass by".
22. well, you didnt leave enough details for me to analyze but maybe your just shy and a little on the introverted side. you should read some books on how to break out of your shell and mingle more. hope i could be of help.
23. you're probably doing nothing wrong, seriously. you've probably never been in the right situation to make it happen. all through high school i thought i'd die a lonely old spinster and i envied every girl for their beauty/confidence/whatever. i got my first bf at 18 and i was amazed that ppl actually noticed me. you've just got to find someone who you can talk to easily, you make each other laugh, feel really comfortable with them, and if you feel a spark then tell them.
good luck :)
24. Get out and about to do stuff you like that interacts with other people. You're more likely to find a girl you like while doing that. And even old bastions of male geekiness, like science fiction, anime and gaming conventions, now have many, many girls. (Good for you, and too bad for them; in my day, the odds for the girls were phenomenal!) and don't just judge the books, videos, or girls by their covers.
25. I'm 18 and I haven't either. But I don't want just anyone. I'm waiting for someone who I really really like for who they are. Don't be paranoid. Just think about this, how many people do you know who have had boyfriends/girlfriends and are still with them. Probably not that many. So don't feel bad. Don't try to go out and get a girlfriend, but if it comes around and you see someone you think you truly like, then try to get to know her and if you still like her, ask her out :)
26. You might be trying too hard. Don't look for it... it will come when it's your time. Go out, have fun, relax... and be yourself. Girls don't like fake dudes that try to be someone they're not. And don't sweat your looks, man... not that there's anything wrong with your looks... just saying. Girls that go for looks are shallow... avoid them. My sister in law goes for looks and her boyfriends suck. All the luck, brother...
27. It seems, the women are not noticing you. Self improvement is the surest path to having more options. We can improve by making more money, getting more fit, becoming more outgoing and fun to be around, etc. The bottom line is, each woman is going to get the best man she possibly can. And if that happens to be someone else, then you will be left out. So, do what you have to do to become the type of man that stands out from the rest of the competition.
28. Just be yourself and be patient.
29. I had the same problem. I had never had a serious relationship until I was 23 years old. My problem was...I WORRIED TOO MUCH ABOUT IT!
Here's your game plan:
1: Work on yourself. Think about what you want out of your partner. Make yourself that kind of person.
2: Work on your appearance. Don't go bulimic or workout crazy, but make sure you're always clean and as well dressed as your budget permits.
3: Stop looking for perfection! Why? You'll never find it. Lots of guys hold out for a girl who's absolutely stunning, witty, eloquent, rich, famous, etc. There's no such thing as that woman.
4: Put yourself in situations to meet people...but don't go there planning to hook up. Think of it as a game of probability. If you meet 10 girls and try to have a serious relationship with all of them...the odds are you'll have about 8 crummy, short relationships. If you meet 50 girls and only try to date a few of them, you'll have better chances of meeting someone you're willing to hang out with for more than 5 minutes at a time.
5: Don't plan your wedding on the first date...or the second...or the third! Girls just find that creepy...and you won't get your hopes up too high.
I could go on...but I won't.
Just keep hanging on...you'll find it when you LEAST expect it...I'm serious!
30. you are meeting the wrong kind of girls... get out there and broaden your choices... go and flirt flirt flirt...
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