Are 3sums the new in thing?

1. just let him know how you feel you guys are in love talk it out im sure he'll understand

2. Tell him that if another woman comes near him in a sexual way, she and him are getting burried in the back yard.

3. carrying out a fantasy changes things for ever.............personaly i would never do it.................. and if you do not want to do it..then tell him not to bring it up ever again.....good luck

4. If my b/f said that to me and really meant it, I would break off with him. And not have any regret about it what-so-ever. How can a girl trust a guy like that? He probably cheats on her.

5. Every guy has a 3some fantasy. Wether they admitt it or not is a different story. The reason why he wants to do this is because he is interested in your reactions and how you all interact as a whole. It can be a good or bad experience depending on you and your fiance. You gotta have some ground rules if you are gonna do this. Make sure they know what you want out of it and comprimise. If you want, ask him if you can help pic out the girl. If you don't wanna do a 3some let him know right away. Because right now it is in his head and he might be eager. So if you get the picture out of his head he'll be disappointed for awhile but you 2 are the ones who are gonna get married. It's not 2 women getting married to one guy. It's just you and him. Now that you know a guys point of view hopefully it will help you into making a decision whatever it maybe.

6. i would really have to question him bringing it up in the first place. if i were you i would sit and talk it over with him, let him know how you feel and if he still pushes the issue then you have to decide if you want to stay with a man like that or not.

7. Dont do it, ........... it will hurt your relationship badly. But as you just said that you love him deeply but i doubt if he has the simillar feelings for you. so just be careful and make sure that he is truly in love with you. Secondly as he has given his consent, ask him to have a 3some with U,He and another male first and then U, he and another female.

8. fantasies are safe, but he may regret later on! What if you enjoy being with a female? My advise? Do not cross over these boundries! Good luck!

9. Well I don't know about the new in thing, but it has been around for a long time.I mean come on he is not even married to you yet and he wants a 3some all ready.Girl you may love him but he don't love you or he wouldn't be asking you this even before you get married to him.He would perform better give me a brake girl he is taking you for a ride.Don't play his little game, you don't ask your wife to do that if you love them.The only heart he has is between his legs.Forget him and find some one who will want your body and no one but you.

10. If it's ok for him to be with another woman with you in the room, then eventually it will be ok for him to be with another woman when you are not in the room, at work, asleep, or out of town.

11. sure , ok

12. wow, well idk about this its either he really just has never tried it and he loves u and thinks it would be fun, or either whoever the other girl ur doing with it is having an affair

13. It's not the NEW "in" thing by any means. A lot of people are into this (mostly men as long as it's with 2 women). If you are not comfortable with it, don't EVER do it. It will only ruin your relationship. If your fiance can't respect that you're better off with someone who will.

14. I'm not really into the idea, because it involves someone in the whole thing that has to, well, you know, with someone of the same gender. So unless one of the people involved is bisexual, I think it results in someone getting the short end of the stick.

15. I can totally understand where you're coming from - I think a threesome sounds awesome until you're in a really committed relationship (like yours is, obviously, you're engaged). If it's going to hurt you to see him with another woman and/or will cause you to see him differently from then on, don't do it. Tell him how you feel. What's meant to be is meant to be.

16. If he truely loved you he would respect your feelings and wishes NOT to have a 3some ... trade him in for someone who respects you and who only wants to be with you

17. Threesomes where one partner isnt totally into it are usually a great way to start a breakup. You never trust the person after that. You always wonder why they moaned a certain way for the other person and not for you. Don't even entertain his fantasy of having a 3some for a second if youre not 100% comfortable with it. And keep an eye on him. If he knows youre not into it, and he's pushing it anyway, he doesn't sound like the guy you should be with.

18. He's lying if he said he won't mind seeing you with another man. Threesomes are not the new thing; they've always been there in pornography and fantasies. However, if you don't feel comfortable with them, you shouldn't have to indulge in his fantasies. Stand your ground! If he really need to have the threesome, perhaps his love for you is only in sex...

19. he is not wanting to be in a real relationship. if you have a three some with him, i will bet he will be in a two some with some one else inside on year. dump him and what for a real man. this is a kid with hormones

20. If you are not comfortable with it 100% don't do it! I would feel hurt if my boyfriend were to suggest something like that. He should want to be with you and only you, and if not then you relationship will not work out.

21. 3somes do seem to be the 'in' thing. There would have to be a whole lot of trust, and security in your relationship to go inviting others into it. If theres jelously then it will only cause problems. Mostly its just because men want to women fussing over them!!!

22. I think you should leave him! where's the fun?

23. No, they aren't a "new" thing. Group sex and orgies are old news. (there are cave paintings of this) That isn't to say that everyone does them. In fact, I would dare say that less than 25% of people ever participate in these activities. And even less than that do it regularly. A word to the wise. Never do anything you aren't 100% into. If this is a problem for your Fiance then you need to take a hard look at the kind of man he really is.

24. Threesomes and orgies have been around since before the dark ages. If you don't like it, he needs to respect that. Also, I agree with what another said, if he can do it once, he can do it again when you are absent.

25. Unfortunately anything immoral seems to be the new in thing. Don't do it. It is adultery...plain and simple.