I consider myself a very confindent girl. I'm 5'8" and I love wearing REALLY tall heels all of the time. A few weeks ago I met this great guy and we hit things off instantly. We are planning on getting more serious. The only thing is, he is three inches shorter then me. I honestly don't mind, but I love wearing heels and I'm afraid he might not like me being THAT tall or I'm afraid that my friends and family will make fun of me. He buys me a lot of things (like shoes!!) and I'm afraid my family will think I'm only using him for his money, since I date guys that are over six feet. Any advice or tips that I could use? What do you guys like about dating a girl taller then you? Do you mind it when she wears heels? Anything helps! Thanks in advance!
Answers:
1. its funny because im semi involved with a girl who is my exact height and it bothers me to a degree, but neither of us have mentioned it yet. As long as your ok with it, then your ABSOLUTELY FINE. If hes with you then he probably has his hesitations about things, but if you give him the green light as its ok then he will be happy as ever. Give him that green light!
2. Don't wear heels for a while!!! There are really cute shoes without heels
3. well i dont see why not, he likes u for u...if u like him thats all that matters
4. Give him man-heels.
5. Short men love tall women! I'm tall and I always attract short men. They look at tall women and think...:I would love to climb that mountain!" He will not mind you wearing your heels....and if you don't mind him being shorter then don't worry about what other people think...especially sinice he treats you nice.
6. Who cares what anybody else thinks. Its how you feel. How you feel when your with him. Maybe he likes long legs. One couple I know that stands out in my mind, the woman was over 6 ft tall and the man was 5 ft at the most. Thier relationship worked. Whose to judge.
7. you should walk 2-3 feet behind him.. YOU'LL look the same height!!!
8. Well I think if you have hit it off already then thats your answer, and I would keep wearing heels he may love them, there sexy in BED :) he can wear them, lol
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