we've been dating for about a week,hopefully longer, but iv noticed that sometimes as were together i freeze up and dont no wat to say or talk about and i feel real awkward, also how do i keep her intristead in me?
Answers:
1. Don't worry about it... conversations should just flow and be natural. You can't keep a list of topics to cover and read them. Don't work so hard to keep her interested. Both of you should be talking, and sharing about things that affect you or happen or you think about. It'll work out, ok?
Just be yourself. Good luck!
2. just be yourself and start talking about anything
3. You must be young huh? Anyway, stuff like that happens when people first start dating. When I was younger and was akward around guys we'd go back and forth and ask questions to get to know each other. When things get akward just say something, ANYTHING. Ask her how her day was, tell her something funny that happened.
4. Make her talk instead by asking her open ended questions. (never ask questions that can be answered with yes/no) For example: What would be your favorite country to visit? What do you think about ______?
Remember: Girls love talking.
5. hey..i'm having the same problem too, but for me..it's kinda working out...but it obviously depends on who u are and ur gf
two situations:
a) on the phone--just keep it quiet for awhile cuz some ppl like the quiet sounds or, make random comments
b) in person/via a source of messenger: make random comments once again or talk about something that interests u both..like food =]
sometimes u feel that your going no where in ur conversations, but u are. You don' t realize it. But you don't have to worry if u freeze up. Just think of it like this: if u freeze up now...u'll be ready to unfreeze in the future...
and as u said before..its just been one week...-->
BE CONFIDENT that things will work out-->usually leads to things working out =]
just hang in there buddy. things will work out fine..because ur with her cuz ur willing to fight the barriers together in life to make her happy =]
hope it helps
6. Hey there!!what ur going through is normal..it happens to nearly everybody..so dont worry about it..just be yourself and let the conversations pop-up by themselves..
my advice for u since uve been dating for only about a week is for u to keep ur dates short and exciting and then just head back home..her interest shud grow by time [u better be patient] and she shud start to want to spend more time with you..
be yourself..be confident..try to make her feel that she can be herself when she is around u by talking to her openly about everything..
the key is time..be patient..
wise words spoken
cheerz
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