Alright well I've been with this girl for almost two years now. A few months back I almost broke up with her over a situation with this person she works with. I found out that they were talking and they basically told her that they liked her but my girl says that nothing happened. She told me that she told them that she was in a relationship and then she stopped talking to her.
Well a few nights ago we were hanging out and she gets a call on her phone. I pick it up and the voice on the other line says "Hey baby, whats up?" It was the same person she was talking to back then. I got pissed and broke up with her assuming that she'd been talking to them this whole time and hiding it from me. It would be easy to do since I've been working a 4:30pm to 3am shift 4 nights a week. She could do whatever and I wouldn't know about it.
We talked about it some and I am still on the border of wanting to work it out. I love her but I dont want to be hurt anymore.
Thanks for reading.
Answers:
1. If you feel you can work it out then do it!! Did you allow her to explain cos it might have been innocent. If it wasn't innocent then leave cos she doesn't love ya! Also if you dont trust her when you are at work you never will and if you sort things out with her it will always be a huge issue and it will take over!
2. Try to talk to her. Please don't let ur anger take over u to make a stupid decision. And main thing u must trust her. If i where u i will not scolded her for it. But i will treat her nice and love her more. The reason i do so is to make her feel regret of what she has done on out relationship. And she will reliase that u still love her. U must win her over back to urself and not because of anger u spoilt it.... i wish u all the best and always take thing clarm.
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