A few weeks ago my ex invited me out to a National Park on a visit some weekend, but put it off several weeks in a row. I got an infection and was quite ill and he texted me every day to see how I was. On Tuesday I told him I was feeling a bit better, then didn't hear from him the rest of the week.
We'd pre-arranged to go to a club night on Saturday if we weren't going to the National Park, and I texted him on Saturday to see when he was coming down. He replied to say he couldn't go because he was in the National Park today! And then suggested we go out 'next month' instead. I was so hurt I didn't reply.
Yesterday he texted as if nothing was wrong and I told him how hurt I was. He apologised and said he had thought I was still ill, but he hadn't called before to find out. I don't know whether to forgive him or move on. I had secretly hoped we might get back together but now I don't even know if we can be just friends. What should I do??
Answers:
1. he is not serious, forget him. If you don't, you will suffer later.
2. Yes think about it he did not do nothing wrong. so you just think think think. like pooh bare.
3. "said he had thought I was still ill" sounds like bullshit to me. You should tell him how you feel. The whole getting back with the ex. is a difficult thing.
4. It sounds like you should.. its not like he is cheating. Nobodys perfect
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