I work with a girl in the office who is very friendly with everyone yet she seems to act "weird" around me. What I mean is she stops being her fun self, gets all serious, makes no eye contact and just acts different. I have done some modeling work and am considered good looking, just not terribly outgoing. Does this girl like me or hate me? Need advice.
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1. 2 hours ago
haha cant stand my smell...thats funny actually. sorry didnt mean to sound like an ego-idiot with the model bit, I never tell anyone actually. I was just trying to say I dont think I'm ugly so people wouldnt say "its cuz youre ugly" lol. Thanks for all your answers.
2. I think she can't stand your smell.
3. maybe you're too "pretty" for her. why don't you ask her, pretty boy?
4. I'd go w/ like ya
5. she likes you. do you like her?
6. i think she hates you.
7. My guess would be that she doesn't like you (and I'm not really sure what your modeling work has to do with it).
8. Go for it but watch your grounds, a bad break up with a co worker will make everything feel weird, but yea it seems like she likes you.
9. i think she likes you. or she hates you one of the two.. haha you should totally go for it!! oohh she might be intimidated by you.. but yeah.. GO FOR IT!! haha
10. I know I get like that, so all I can say is ask her, or even beter ask her on a dat, and see what she dose?
11. I would assume that she is committed and she does not feel safe around you and wanna show that she is not interested at all...
Try to ignor her and give you attention to your job and other people around, so speak to her very professionaly and do not look at her... you know ... and then you will find out;
so no attention to her :)
12. Unless You've done something to annoy her, I think she likes you. Ask her out and see.
13. if you're willing to pull out the "look at me, I'm an amateur model" card within a sentence of meeting people online, I'm sure she's heard about it too. she probably thinks your arrogant and isn't interested. the way she's acting isn't shy: she's avoiding you.
14. Seems to me that she is playing it cool. She really likes you and is afraid to express her feelings toward you because she is scared that you do not feel the same way! This happens to a lot of women, so if you like her then speak up. This will be the only way to get her to open up, and then it will take away a lot of tension. Hope this helps! Good luck
15. Any woman who acts weird around you, gets very serious, makes no eye contact and just acts very, very different doesn't like you. I'm not sure if she hates you. I would move on and find someone else that likes the same interests as you do. Don't find someone that is a complete opposite of you. If you're not outgoing, then I would not look for a very outgoing gal. Look for someone more quiet, and down to earth, and old fashioned. Good luck.
16. From your questions, it seems that you are interested in that girl. You can never tell if a person like you or not until you confront that particular individual about it unless otherwise obvious actions from them. The best advice is still the same old fashion ones, go up to her and ask her why she is acting strange around you (nice and caringly in private) and maybe even ask her if the reason is because she likes you (that will give out a hint that you're maybe interested as well).
17. if u r in love then just tell her that i m in love.do not think just do it.
otherwise u will get only alone and sad.
so go ........... and tell her..........about ur.............
18. Nahhhhh...she probably doesn't hate you.
If anything she is getting shy around you because she likes you. Of course she will be her fun self with her friends/people that she's comfortable with/those that she's not worried that she'll mess up around.
Question is...do you like HER? If not, then no consequence in carrying on as you are. However, if you like her....then you might want to think about seriously making an effort to get to know her b/c it seems kind of hard for her to make that step.
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19. Her acting wierd could be because of either of these 2 reasons
1. You both might have met very recently and she needs some time to get friendly with you. OR
2. You must have done something that she might have not liked it and she is avoiding you from getting close to her.
20. Either she is nervous around you (which could either means she likes you or is intimidated by you), or she just plain doesn't like you for some reason. Based only on what you've told us, it's hard to tell. You might ask someone close to her in the office if she doesn't like you or if you're doing something to annoy her (this is less awkward than asking if she likes you b/c it seems like you're trying to fix a problem). If they say "yes", you know, and if they say "no", then maybe she does like you. One way to find out...
21. Since she's friendly w/ everyone else it's obvious there is some tension between you. Best way to find out which kind: start talking to her instead. It usually goes like this:
Hello ______.
How are you today?
(she says she's doing great)
Oh! What was the best part of your day so far?
Then invite her for a break together if you get a good vibe.
This works because it shows her that you are friendly and interested in her (everyone loves attention). Even if she doesn't like you now this will make her look at you with different eyes. Voilą, no more tension.
Works for me EVERY TIME.
22. She either likes you, or acts differently coz your not outgoing, ive had girls do the same thing to me and turns out they just didnt know me well enough to be themselves around me, and she just acted that way of who i was and not because she liked me, but you never know she might want you bad
23. you makes her nervous.
ths has happened to me before..
just brake the ice smile and say hi
and she will know your interested in talking to her as friends=]
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