I can't get my girlfriend to feel comfortable in her underwear. We have been dating for a year.?

1. If that is the worst problem you have with her, let her alone and be happy for what you have. Her undies issues may go back to when she was very little. Just be happy for what you two HAVE and not what you don't.

2. Maybe she just isn't ready for that yet. If thats not the case then you need to consider how fragile females can be. There could be something about her that as far as you or the rest of the world is concerned doesn't exist but it makes her hang her head in shame. Basically, if you really want this, you need to assure her that shes everything you need. You need to make her believe that you wouldn't change anything at all about her. The es way to do this is to mean it. Be the one for her, man.

3. not to be mean but it doesn't matter what she weighs or how often you tell her that shes beautiful. If she is not feeling it or not feeling comfortable like that then she isn't going to change that over night. She may never be comfortable in just her underwear. I say just respect that and be happy

4. The time will come, make her feel relaxed and that you are comfortable with seeing her in her underwear and that if she is insecure about something with her body make sure you say you don't care about that - you love HER! Just wait and the time will come. Don't force her - that's worst that you could do !

5. did it occur to you that maybe she's not ready for that yet? maybe you putting so much emphasis on it is spooking her, it woudl for me. just let her do her own thing in her own time.

6. If you want her to feel comfortable in her underwear,,,,, um,, maybe you should marry her??? Does that make you comfortable?? Sorry.

7. Well, first off, every woman is different. Some will never be comfortable that way. With me, I'm uncomfortable naked, but slap on a bra and some underwear, and I'll prance around the apartment with the blinds open (however, we are on the 4th floor). Anyway, the point is that she may just be the type of person who is uncomfortable with it. I never bear cleavage, never have, never will, and it's just who I am. Another factor may be her self-esteem. She might be really suffering. Find other ways to let her know she's beautiful, not just physically, but on the inside, too. Sometimes when we're told we're beautiful from the same people all the time, we doubt it, but when we hear it from an unexpected third party, it can be a serious confidence booster. Good luck, but don't pressure her about it because it will only make things worse and make her feel uncomfortable as if you just want her body.

8. DITCH HER. Date ME.

9. buy her nice lingerie and say you want to see how she looks in it!

10. leave her alone. if she's not comfortable in her underwear with you, it probably means that she just doesn't trust you well enough yet. don't worry about it, if you're sincere -- it'll happen