I want to start over somewhere else and change my name and what not to make things fresh. I'm sick of the annoying friendships that i have made that don't do it for me anymore and I wish to end, but can't because of the resentment these clingy friends will feel. I only value truely one dear friend. That is all. It is as if other people don't understand friendship and it frustrates me because I put so much into maintaining and cultivating my friendships. What can I do? Should I just move away and start over.
Answers:
1. Walking away from your problems completely is not the answer. Face them and get some closures. Tell everyone straight up that you are tired of their crap and that you deserve better. After this, just walk away and it's over.
2. Moving away won't solve anything. I would focus on your close friend and stop caring so much about what other people think and make yourself happy. These don't sound like very good friends if they are "clingy" and "annoying." If there are any of these friendships you want to save try talking to them about how you feel and if they aren't willing to give and take to make it work then you don't need them.
3. All the time.
I only have one true friend but she lives thousands of miles away.
I can't even be my true self to my friends now. It sucks. I'm not really open to them. Last year, I just wanted to move schools, so I could start over, but that didn't happen, and now I'm stuck with my "friends."
4. I understand completely but if you just ignore the people who aren't doing it for you and start trying to meet new people depending on a hobby you take up, perhaps you could meet new people without having to pay a lot of money and disrupting your life. :D
5. yenno what!!! i dont wanna read that bigass paragraph so i am just typing for two points! haha!
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