Or not?
Answers:
1. Yup.
2. No. Have some self respect.
3. I would never....That is more of a punishment to me than to him. Also I would never force him to sleep on the couch...he sleeps better when he does.
4. NO!!!!!!!!!! You should never use sex as a weapon.
5. I'd say if you let things get to that stage there's no point in being married any more.
6. well, if he/she needs sex all the time then yes. but if he/she is tired and just wants to have some rest or u don't excite him/her - what's the purpose? he/she would be just glad, that's it
7. tats terrible...she ll hate u...
8. I believe it is to an extent. I mean if you are angry, obviously you are not going to be in the mood. However, the best thing to do is walk away, and gather your thoughts. After you both have cooled off, go back and talk it through. Then make up!!
9. It is pure tyranny at its worst! IF you use sex as a tool, there will soon be a time when your tool will not be used, period. IF you use sex as a reward for good behavior, your mate will not behave good for long. Good luck and peace, Goldwing
10. Sex should never be used as a weapon. The bible says that once a couple comes together as one their bodies belong to each other. Couples should be willing and ready to please each other according to each others needs...not their own.
11. techniqually no.
12. Let me put it this way, you can't expect your partner to want sex when you are fighting. It is a turn off you know. Pretty hard to get turned on when you get hurt over something. My husband would hurt my feelings one night and want sex the next. I couldn't do it. I was still hurt over the night before. If there is not a "I'm sorry" spoken to each other then the hurt feelings do not go away and it is like it is okay to hurt me and I will just forget what you did or said. And that is not true.. don't expect anyone to forgive and forget and have sex with nothing said in between.
13. If its a woman, its not about "cutting off" the sex' she still wants it, the only thing is she is not in the mood if her spouse has p***** her off in any way. It aint gonna happen.
Its important, and you get the most out of it, if both are totally in the mood. It makes it a lot better too!!
14. I've done it! Is it fair? Probably not. However, when I'm pissed off the last thing I want is someone feeling me up and trying to be all lovey.
15. you should use sex as currency in your marriage instead.
much more benefits.
16. Not in the least. And besides, if you partner isn't getting it from you, they will eventually start looking elsewhere. If it has come to this point, get yourselves into some relationship counseling. The alternative is dissolution and that can get ugly and expensive.
17. No, it is a childish way to fight. I'm not saying you should have sex with someone your mad at. I am saying that you should not hold your sexual affection over their head. (IE. - "I'm not going to have sex with you because you didn't unload the dishwasher.")
18. sex should never be used as a weapon!
19. i wouldnt call it a way of fighting but i couldnt sleep with someone i was angry at!!!!!
you need to make up before the fun can resume!!!!
20. No. You should look for another means to hit him...
21. Well one thing you might need to understand is that she may not be intentionally using sex as a weapon. If things are not nice between you, she probably really isn't feeling sexual as sex is more than just a physical act to us. It is emotional as well. It is just the way we women are wired I think. So let's say for arguments sake she thinks you were a jerk to her. Come bed time the LAST thing she wants to do is have sex. But again it may not be a conscious "oh I'll show him" sort of thing. The problem is this can turn into a vicious circle as you will feel rejected and be an even bigger jerk. Then what you end up with is a power struggle that no one can ever win. IT sounds like you are already there seeing how you used words like fair and fight. You are sounding like someone who's heals are dug in too.
22. Yup.
23. No. Have some self respect.
24. I would never....That is more of a punishment to me than to him. Also I would never force him to sleep on the couch...he sleeps better when he does.
25. NO!!!!!!!!!! You should never use sex as a weapon.
26. I'd say if you let things get to that stage there's no point in being married any more.
27. well, if he/she needs sex all the time then yes. but if he/she is tired and just wants to have some rest or u don't excite him/her - what's the purpose? he/she would be just glad, that's it
28. tats terrible...she ll hate u...
29. I believe it is to an extent. I mean if you are angry, obviously you are not going to be in the mood. However, the best thing to do is walk away, and gather your thoughts. After you both have cooled off, go back and talk it through. Then make up!!
30. It is pure tyranny at its worst! IF you use sex as a tool, there will soon be a time when your tool will not be used, period. IF you use sex as a reward for good behavior, your mate will not behave good for long. Good luck and peace, Goldwing
31. Sex should never be used as a weapon. The bible says that once a couple comes together as one their bodies belong to each other. Couples should be willing and ready to please each other according to each others needs...not their own.
32. techniqually no.
33. Let me put it this way, you can't expect your partner to want sex when you are fighting. It is a turn off you know. Pretty hard to get turned on when you get hurt over something. My husband would hurt my feelings one night and want sex the next. I couldn't do it. I was still hurt over the night before. If there is not a "I'm sorry" spoken to each other then the hurt feelings do not go away and it is like it is okay to hurt me and I will just forget what you did or said. And that is not true.. don't expect anyone to forgive and forget and have sex with nothing said in between.
34. If its a woman, its not about "cutting off" the sex' she still wants it, the only thing is she is not in the mood if her spouse has p***** her off in any way. It aint gonna happen.
Its important, and you get the most out of it, if both are totally in the mood. It makes it a lot better too!!
35. I've done it! Is it fair? Probably not. However, when I'm pissed off the last thing I want is someone feeling me up and trying to be all lovey.
36. you should use sex as currency in your marriage instead.
much more benefits.
37. Not in the least. And besides, if you partner isn't getting it from you, they will eventually start looking elsewhere. If it has come to this point, get yourselves into some relationship counseling. The alternative is dissolution and that can get ugly and expensive.
38. No, it is a childish way to fight. I'm not saying you should have sex with someone your mad at. I am saying that you should not hold your sexual affection over their head. (IE. - "I'm not going to have sex with you because you didn't unload the dishwasher.")
39. sex should never be used as a weapon!
40. i wouldnt call it a way of fighting but i couldnt sleep with someone i was angry at!!!!!
you need to make up before the fun can resume!!!!
41. No. You should look for another means to hit him...
42. Well one thing you might need to understand is that she may not be intentionally using sex as a weapon. If things are not nice between you, she probably really isn't feeling sexual as sex is more than just a physical act to us. It is emotional as well. It is just the way we women are wired I think. So let's say for arguments sake she thinks you were a jerk to her. Come bed time the LAST thing she wants to do is have sex. But again it may not be a conscious "oh I'll show him" sort of thing. The problem is this can turn into a vicious circle as you will feel rejected and be an even bigger jerk. Then what you end up with is a power struggle that no one can ever win. IT sounds like you are already there seeing how you used words like fair and fight. You are sounding like someone who's heals are dug in too.
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