OK here goes briefly. I had a girlfriend for about 1 1/2 yrs. Things were getting kinda stale when I met this new girl at school we started going out for coffee, lunch and what not. I broke it off with the girlfriend and that was rough, she was blind sided but that was that. I started getting serious with this other girl. We went on for four months. School ended and she went for a job interview 75 miles away, when I asked her where she would live she said that her "old" B'friend said she could stay with him. I was pissed and ended the relationship stat! as that was not OK with me (obviously right??) Well I got back with the original girl pretty easily. As far as I knew it was a lesson learned. Well, she came back saying that it was all a big mistake. She has told me that she did have sex with her X but then realized it wasn't what she wanted. I really want her back but am confused. Do I break up with my girlfriend again
So I can give this relationship another chance? Help Please.
Answers:
1. I'd say it sounds like you want both cakes and expect to eat them both! The girls should both find someone else......
2. You're a jacka$$, go screw yourself.
3. dude, do some useful work, get some job and forget all these temporary relationships. Think 20 years from now, will she raise children with you? If you are not sure, why develop the relationship that has no future.
4. Follow your heart.
5. definitely break up with the first girl for the second and LAST time. what a loser to use her like that! you should be ashamed of yourself. Go back to the 2nd one so you can be played and be as big a fool as you made your first girlfriend. I hope you get it. You're getting what you give. KARMA!
6. Sounds like you don't know what you want.....just what is easier :(
7. I feel so sorry for your first girlfriend.
Dump her.
You and your second girlfriend deserve each others' confusion!
8. HELL NAW !!! don't keep breaking your current Girlfriends heart maan .DTB she left you for her EX!!!!!
she could do it again then come running back thinking you'll take her back
9. First, you dumb the first girlfriend and then go back to her after the other leaves and you complain about upset. I can not believe that the first girlfriend thinks that little of herself as to accept you back after dumping her. Where was she living prior to the breakup, with you or did she have to leave?
So whats the problem 2nd girlfriend dumps you now and wants to come back, you have no relationship with either. Just convenient sleeping arrangements.
10. So, who is it you want? If you still want your 4month girlf then you should never have gone back to your long term sig other. You're not just confusing yourself your mucking around with the emoptions of 2 other poor young ladies neither of whom deserve it.
So, until you grow up & realsie you can't keep treating girls like this you don't deserve to have either!!
11. dude you are so wrong..! just thought you should know that..
12. The first one surly deserves someone better than you.The second one seems to be just as good as you.So you could opt for her or find anotherone like her.
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