Ok, to my contacts who have answered my previous question, I'm kinda changin' my mind on what i think is right.
Ok, i like the guy. He's a legal "adult" (college freshman) and i'm still a "child" (highschooler). We both kinda like each other. He says sweet things to me and all that kool stuff, but we BOTH know that a relationship would land us in some deep doo-doo right now because my mom barely knows this kid (he's my exbf's bestfriend) and I'm "not old enough to date" (rules of the house) (wouldn't let me out with a kid she didn't know anyway lol). We only see each other a few times a year, but we talk via internet. The deal is.. i like this guy. a lot. My mom would kill me if she knew about this and I know it's wrong.. but i'm havin' a hard time gettin' him off my mind.. I like other guys, but i seem to like this guy more even though i shouldn't.. any ideas as to what i can do about this predicament?
Answers:
1. 3 hours ago
No no. This guy's NICE. He sees beyond boobs and butts and all that ... stuff.
He's sweet, he's gentlemanly, he's nice; he's a live-free, die-hard Christian. What do u expect? He actually advised that this wouldn't be safe for either of us. Just sayin' :)
2. You like him more because it's a sneaky relationship. but if he really is that old then he basically wants it if you know what I mean.
3. Despite the fact that you like this guy and he likes you fairly well, it really sounds like there's too much going against you to think about going out... at least for now. My advice is to accept that (at least for the moment) this guy is not accessible. Keep in contact with him, stay friends with him, and definitely keep him in the back of your mind when you get to "acceptable dating age" if he's still unattached. Otherwise, go on with life as normal, and don't automatically reject any other guy who might come your way. Unless you have him in some sort of binding promise, there's no guarantee this fellow of yours will still be single when you become old enough to date him.
I wish you luck!
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