okay, i ran into a friend from way back, and i gave him my number jus to catch up over the phone.. now hes blowing up my cell phone and messaging me all over the place.. i dun make any effort to contact him back... im jus not interested in talkin to him as a bf or a friend. I dun wanna be rude and mean and tell him to leave me alone... so what do i do?
Answers:
1. Tell him the truth and be nice about it. they always understand because it makes them feel less rejected. any man can handle the real truth.
2. juz tell him ur feeling
3. just start acting like ur really busy and slowly talk to him less and less and if he ask if ur interested in him anymore just tell him no
4. Something is amiss here.
You ran into a "friend" and gave him ur number and now he's calling you way too much? I guess he's really not a friend then huh?
You should answer the phone, deal with this like and adult and make your boundaries clear to him. You see, people treat you how you LET them treat you. So just tell him politely that you're a very busy person and that he doesn't need to call you every (insert amount of time that he calls you here) and that you'll call him back.
If you don't plan on ever calling him back then just be honest and tell him that you only gave him ur phone # to catch up and not to be called all the time.
But I"m still confused why you would call him your "friend" and if he wasn't why even give out your number?
5. You need to try and be honest with him. Tell him the truth because he needs to know. But its your choice.
You must listen to what your heart is telling you to do.
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