i want to take a break because he is boring to me right now and id rather spend time with my friends. i still like him but i just need some space. or else im just going to get more annoyed with him. he is very sensitive though. we are sophemores and have been going out for almost a month
Answers:
1. Since you don't sound like you're jumping to another boyfriend right now, just say that you've been giving it some thought and you're too young to get serious with a guy, and you would really like to concentrate on friendships with your girlfriends....tell him you need the space right now. And at least it's not like it's a long relationship, if you want...unless you want a clean break, you can say you'd like to remain just friends.....
2. Well if you just want space and some time with your friends but you don't need to see other guys then I would just tell him this:
Tell him that you don't want to see other people but you want to take a little break from each other just to have some space and to be with your friends. Explain that you don't want to break up or see other people but that you want some time to just be with your friends and yourself.
If you do want to see other people then you might want to try telling him that you still really like him but that since you are only sophemores that you want to just see other people for a short period of time and make sure that you are right for each other because you don't want to rush into anything only as a sophemore.
Basicly I would just as nicely as possible tell him how you feel about the relationship.
3. Just tell him... you are too young to get serious with anyone right now and although you like him.. you want to be able to hang out with your friends, etc. without "hurting" anyone elses feelings. Seriously,, do this.
4. Tell him that you care about him, but that you're at a point in your life where you feel like you need space. Let him know that you will still be friends and be there to talk with him and hang out (if that's what you wanna do). Tell him that you wanna spend time with your friends. After all, your a teenager, and you need to be having fun, not "stuck" in a relationship you aren't happy in. Good luck! =)
5. Don't tell him that he's "boring to you right now", even if that's the truth. Instead of putting a negative focus on him, put a positive focus on hanging out with your friends. Say, "I still like you and think you're great, but I really want to spend more time with my friends than I have been. I feel like I've been neglecting them." Then suggest he hang out with his friends a little more as well.
This way no one's feelings will get hurt, and both of you can get some fun and a "break" out of it.
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