I am very jelous of one of my bf friends. the problem is that they treat each other with so much love, that makes me think all the time that they are together. I think that I wish he treated me the way he treats her, all the names he calls her. It drives me crazy and we fight all the time about it. I have told me many times that i wish he could show me more affection but nothing happens and I dont know wht to do anymore.
Answers:
1. You have every right to be jealous. It sounds like he treats her better. Let him go.
2. The question should be, "what are you still doing there?" He doesnt give you the effection you want, get the stepping to someone who will. Its not that hard.
3. i dont think its going to change so if you can accept it and stop arguing. you fighting with him about is not going to make him want to give you affection, its only pushing him furhter away. i would get to know his friend and accept her and be secure. you should trust you guy and be secure enough to know its all ok. if you show you guy you trust him and stop fighting with him and make friends it will make him happy. if he is happy, he is going to think your the best girl ever and it will all be sweet. no one is going to show affection to someone who has been fighting with them 24/7 and annoying them. i wouldnt feel affectionate
4. I would be jealous too.. but at the same time angry.. it seems like he's treating her better then you.. u shldnt hold on to him.. perhaps you should just let go..
5. If you don't control it you will drive him completely away...you would me too. You are probably pretty young since you have a boyfriend with another girlfriend so this affection you are wishing for and not getting bothers you a great deal. You will get even less if you pressure the equally young man to give you more than he can. He is the first of many and may be the first of many you drive away by jealous behavior. Someone will come along just for you but until then you have to deal with the confusions of youth in yourself and in your friends.
6. First, I really dont think that person is in to you because what pisses you off does not matter to him.
However if your in that stage of trying to see if you can minggle with the situation relationship wise-- get to know this person personally. You can even suggest to your partner that you wont go out with him until you find something lovable with his friend.
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