my fiance and i have been together for 3 years. we have 2 kids together. everything was perfect at the begining and still havent changed. i know the honneymoon has been gone for years but we r still like newly weds. i am normally a jealous, overbaring person but with him i dont feel the need. is it that he is perfect for me or did i let down my guard..... i am usually like a spy i would know everything before it happened. now im comfortable.
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1. 2 hours ago
one kid is mine and one is his but the other parents r not there so we both took over where we were needed the most. my son calls him dad and his daughter calls me mommy. we are all they have and we both love them like r own.
when we got together i was the obsessive "im gonna find out if you do something wrong" kinda girl but i didnt let him see that. and everything came up negative. so i gave up.....and now i am just naturally happy i have no complaints. im not ignorant i just got an all around good guy and dont see n e thing to worry about.
i guess for once i am trully happy with life
2. Be happy. Your life is good.
3. Everytime you get too comfortable-KABOOM!!! Always be on guard, I hate to say that but I was married once for 5 years and happily married at that, we both seemingly lived a really normal happy healthy life together. Then one day someone gave me some information and I ended up finding out he was living a double life. I guess that's what I get for not taking a second look. All I'm saying is that when it is all too good to be true, it usually is. I have heard TONS of horror stories over the years.
4. 2 kids in 3 years? wow. should have been married BEFORE....anyway, he's probably the best guy for you. why are you unsure? someone finally broke your bad-girlfriend ways....
5. lawd... he must really be perfect for u, guys dont argue or nuttin?... I say u should just appreciate what u have. But I have to admit, arguements with my girlfriend really spice things up for us, keeps us I dunno... "not bored".
6. just be happy and contented with your relationship now!dont think negative about the things that would be happen in the future coz im sure that if ever you will have a problem in the future you two could overcome that coz you love each other....
7. Women are never truly "happy" in relationships . . .
and when they ARE, (like you) they begin to question it's authenticity.
Just listen to "Hot Mama's" answer (above).
She just proved it.
They ALWAYS have this rediculous need to chase "being happy" , and think they are never quite there.
Nothing is really "wrong". The sun could be shining. The birds are singing. And the two of you are just sitting there quietly enjoying a salad. . . . .
This is when a woman will ask herself why she is not "OVERFLOWING WITH HAPPINESS".
Because women are not happy when they are CONTENT.
Only MEN are.
When a woman is genuinely CONTENT,
she will think there is still something "missing",
that's when she (like you) will begin to wonder
what is WRONG.
That's when suspicions arise and she will begin to make ALTERATIONS. And now all she needs to do is "pull the wrong thread" . . . . and EVERYTHING FALLS APART.
If you are happy being CONTENT,
then it seems you have become an ADULT.
Congratulations.
:)
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