okay so I have this friend and she is one of my best but she flirts with guys and totally ignores her friends and it gets really annoying and I have told her already but she doesn't listen what should I do?
and what do guys like in a girl? and how do guys like girls to flirt with them?
Answers:
1. girls flirt with boys = sexy and fun
boys flirt with girls = love and wanna be loved
2. from experience, if your friend doesn't want to listen to you then you need to just let her continue and hope for the best. if not you will only push her away
3. This can get very annoying, I know. Ever heard of being two-faced?? That's exactly how she is acting. Confront her about it and have a serious chat. If she is unwilling to respond maturely, and does not want to be a dependable friend, then it isn't worth wasting time worrying with her. Seems like she would be happier just being her flirty self, getting with guys. Just be yourself-- this is what attracts guys! The last thing in this world you would want to be is HER! Strive to be your usual, confident self-- this is what guys look for! Good Luck
4. Hmm... your profile does not indicate how old you are or if you are male or female, so I'm shooting in the dark here. It's easy to say, "Find another friend that appreciates you better and is not so self serving." How does that sit with you?
She obviously has intentions that are not the same as yours. It sounds like you like her more than just a friend if that bothers you. Maybe you should tell her why it bothers you... because you have stronger feelings for her than you realized. See how she handles that. Women tend to grasp onto substance. If you are only telling her that you don't like it with no explantion, than no wonder it goes in one ear and out the other. So what!
Guys (people in general) are all different. What you like is not necessarily what I will like in a person. You need to 'feel the person out' and see what lights them up. Could be knowing about sports, or not knowing, could be wanting a party girl, might not. See what I mean. Some like glamour, some appreciate someone that can hold and carry a conversation.
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