i broke up with my boyfriend, we weren't good together .. but i;m away from him and miss him like crazy even though i know we had our hard times and bad times there was some good times , but no one wants to see us together or think we should be together , why is it i miss him like crazy , even thought i know if iwent back we would still have all the problems a hard times .. :( how do i move on .and should i
Answers:
1. Girl, you will be okay. :)
2. stop missing him........and provide some space in ur relationship.....
3. If the thought of breaking up with your love ever even crossed your mind to make you do it, it's for the best. If you head and heart told you it wasn't right, then you can't force it. You miss him because you miss the best of him and people don't see that until it's too late. The flaws he possessed were flaws that were big enough to change your heart, accept it. Accept that you'll be happy again, just allow the proper time to recover. Love isn't security, kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises.
4. all I can say to u is go have fun and not think about it. The longer u don't think about it then you will move on faster. Go out with friends, make new friends and if there is another guy go for it, and see how it gose. Its going to be heard but u have to do it. Ive been there and because I hang out with my friends that helped and now I don't even think about him at all.
5. I have the same exact problem...I mean same thing. Our song is Don't matter. I love him and I don't care what anyone else thinks. But remember never leave your family or friends behind. If he feels the same way, maybe you should talk to him and give it another try.
6. Because the human mind likes to romanticize the past.
You look at how you are feeling bad about the split even though you know its a good thing. Your mind is remembering and lingering on the good times you had, and while you say here you are aware that you had bad times its just natural to miss someone after connecting. Like we do when involved in a relationship.
If you two where not good together then my advice is to move on. Embrace work, school or whatever your into. Go out with friends and just concentrate on you. Have fun and enjoy life. One day at a time
7. I'm sorry to hear that - I am missing someone too. It's hard but it's something that you have to do for youself. I always tell myself that I may love him but I have to love myself more. I listen to songs such as "me myself and I" by beyonce. Listen to it, it has helped me so much. Know that the best is yet to come and sooner or later someone is going to walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else. The good times are in the past and you should leave the past where it belongs. Keep your head high and pampter yourself. Paint your nails, do a face mask, take extra care with your hair. You'll feel better about yourself and you can meet a few new guys to take your mind off of him. :]
8. Do your best to focus on the things you want in life and the things that your most passionate about.Try and stay busy by focusing more on what you love that has nothing to do with "him". The more time you can take to be alone and learning more about yourself the more confident you'll feel to go into a better relationship.Loving yourself enough to know what you need from a guy and not lowering your standards may have you temporarily lonely but in the long run it will be the best thing you ever did for yourself!!!!!!! :)
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