ok im a junior i highschool and not the coolest guy around and the last couple gf's i had just were to different from me to work out but i dont want some relationship that lasts until the end of HS i just want a girl that will love me as much as i will love her and know that i will treat her right i just have a hard time approching girls thou
Answers:
1. one word: COLLEGE!!
2. when you find her you will know...only your heart can tell you this
3. honestly, just go on dates, it's the best way to get to know different types, and also to discover what character you want a girl to have, cuz after high school, you will learn so much more about what you need, and in high school, you yourself, are still developing your own character, i think its a waste to date someone seriously in HS. Just go on dates, it's more fun and effective. Also you must read "i kissed dating goodbye" by Joshua Harris... it will open your eyes alot! it did for me!
4. Your heart will tell who's the one for you. Even the day you meet you'll know right away it's her. Right now just focus on being around a variety of different types.
5. Slow down cowboy. What's the rush. You have your whole life ahead of you. Just go out and have fun for now. Enjoy your single life then when the time is right you will find love and not even realize how you managed to do it. If you are thirty and still single then you may have some problems but for now I thing you will be quite all right.
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