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I need some suggestions for a friendly date?

   
So this girl asked me if I wanted to hang out. I have a HUGEEE crush on her. She's seriously the most beautiful girl I've ever been 'friends' with (she's one of those gorgeous/popular girls, but she doesn't have a big head and has a big heart instead). I'm not entirely sure if she really WANTS to hang with me At work on a break she said she wanted to hang w/ me sometime since I'm in town for college right now. SO then I texted her later telling me if she wanted to hang she should call me since I'm always down to hang with her. So tonight she texts me asking when I'm free and whatnot. When I asked her what she wanted to do she was like "oh w/e you want" so I'm not sure if she's really interested or if she's just trying to be nice to me. What do you suggest I plan for us? She has a boyfriend so it's strictly a FRIEND thing. I wanna show her a fantastic time though (we're both 18) and I wanna show her I'm fun to hang with. I need good suggestions please! :) Thanks all

Answers:

1. I guess it depends on what ur both into. Last weekend I had a similar situation. We went out to Red Apple... kind of bar n grill and got a bite to eat. Real friendly place an joked around with the waitresses and each for a bit then we were driving around a bit. I'm arrogant when I drive so I guess that was fun (was swerving around in my lane and switching lanes real jerkily n whatnot =P ) then we went up to meijers and I rode the penny poney and we looked for halloween costumes. I'd also suggest maybe getting another 2 people together and going to a pool hall or maybe going to a coffee shop or something (assuming ur both coffee drinkers, i myself am not =P ) Best of luck buddeh =]

2. Seems like she really wants to hang out. Since she has a boyfriend I'd take her to a coffee shop - a neutral place with nice ambience where you can talk freely. Remember: 1. Be confident 2. Be friendly 3. Smile 4. Talk about things you have in common 5. Be a little mysterious... (don't act too eager) 6. Invite her to hang out again