What should I decide? Pls help me?

1. I don't want to make judgments because I don't know you or either of these men, but from what you have described it seems like neither of them are right for you. You might have had a very strong relationship with your friend but you deserve someone who is willing to commit to you. And your husband shouldn't want you to give up everything just to be with him.

2. Talk a real big talk to ur husband explain how u feel. and try to fix ur problems the guy u like is not 4 u. he likes his wife and i think u should give him up and try to forget everything

3. Be more practical and less possesive in life.

4. How complicated is this! I feel for you. Although I do not have any experience of this sort but I think its up to you to decide if you really need some company to live with? Or you can live alone and pursue your career. second option is to go back to your husband and try to convince him to help you in your career. When you are making a choice as big as this in life always remember that you win some you loose some. So You have to give up one thing for the other. Not forever, you can always go back to it later, its not the end of the world. so ensure that your priorities are clear, before you make a choice. Some choices look very bad/weird in short term but in the long run those turn out to be the best solution.

5. Ur friend is not worth ur friendship. He just wanted to pass his time. He might also come back to you once he is again had it with his wife. But u have to be strong, its the irony with all women. Let go ur friend he was never urs. As for ur husband, see wat he expects from u now. Dont go to him if he is keepg some conditions or he seems the same person u left and wants u just for his house work or u know wat i mean. I hope u get sorted out soon. Its not easy to be alone. All da best

6. Bewakoof lady leave bloody your friend. After all your husband is a husband at all times. With out him you have no life and respect. Go to your husband and enjoy life.

7. No way! Don't do it! You and your husband had 10 years and for whatever reasons split up. I think that 10 years is more than enough to see if your meant for eachother in my opinion you two haven't been 100% happy the whole 10 years. There was probably other situations before but you just "let it go". He was probably cheating on you. There was a scientific study that 80% of all 5 year+ divorces were caused by the husbands was cheating.And this other guy, stop crying over spilled milk.You said there was no sexual relationship and it was "pure friend ship" (Friendship one word). So the situation isn't that bad. He just wants his wife to take him back because she broke up with him because he cheated. And she might take him back (I'm going with she will. I'ts a women thing I don't get it) Ok so when she takes him back you guys can still stay friends although she may not agree because she will probably think he's cheating again with you. So really If I was you, I wouldn't take back your husband and just forget about whats his face go out with some of your friends and meet some new people. Try the dating thing again for a little bit and if you don't like it you can always take you husband back :)

8. Hey dear, hold on! Don spoil ur life at all. Marriage is the only legitimate constitution u are answerable n accountable. Don waste ur time n emotions on anyone who does not deserve. Try to patch up with ur spouse; you gotta a change n comprise a bit n he too will do the same n soon you will find that person in him whom u r longing for!! Don't feel even that u are addicted to that person jst becoz a litle part of ur life u spent with him where there was no rules n regulations, no do's n dont's......bt actually that is not the LIFE at all. What's the use of such dreams n career which puts ur marriage to stake?!! I m not against ur dreams n career...bt dear i mean ... try speaking out to ur hubby in a loving way n lets hope he too will understand n rather support you in pursuing ur dreams n career. A verse in Bible says...."What's the use ...if a man wins the whole world but forfeit his own soul?" Dear ...at the end of day....u should not blame yourself. All the best.

9. in this age and world u dont need men to live ur life......after separation its clear u too dont share the same tuning and if u can do so many years without him ....u r way better without him...concentrate on ur dreams and career.....coz if u have dreams u can make a whole new life for urself.....but going back to the man who didnt even care losin u years back wudnt do u ny good.....nd that friends of urs ......if was a real friend would have stick by ur side no matter what....nd if he ran off that simply means he was a coward and u wouldnt want to b stuck with a coward ur whole life....would u? just b positive and do what ur heart tells u....i know it seems real messed up ryt now but am sure thins will work out soon for u!!

10. Dear lots of confusion. Your friend now wants to go back to his wife. That means he can’t leave his wife. And your husband wants you, but please don’t leave your career.. After 10 years of marriage why you separated because you wanted to make career or some other reason?? Before marriage he didn’t knew that you are working??? Anyways, See before going to your husband You should talk to him openly and clear your views about this. I don’t understand in 21st century husband don’t want his wife be independent. He has to change his thinking otherwise it won’t favour you. And last but not the least PLEASE leave your friend otherwise it will MESS your future marital relation and your personal life also. Males mentally can’t change dear if have not indulge in sexual relationship (with friend) . In-fact it would be better if you stay alone. Think well before taking any step because you know very well what you want. All the best…. Everything will be fine. Saji