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I think I am going to die soon?

   
hi everyone, well this is going to sound stupid and like i am worrying but i am not. just i have had all this really bad stuff happen in my life this year. 2007 has been one of the very worst years of my life. anyways, i think i am going to die soon, and i dont know how or anything. i am not scared, in fact, i rather look forward to it. anyways, i just wondered, what are things i should do to assure that everything is taken care of the way i want it to when i die besides making a will? i am only 26, and i want to make sure everyone i care about gets what i can give to help them out. i dont want my husband to get ANYTHING, if we are still married by the time this happens to me. we are going to be divorced really soon i hope.

Answers:

1. hahahahahaha

2. i don't even know where to begin....

3. that's sad that you'll be divorced and dead by 26... if you are THAT sure, make a will. i hope you don't have kids. this whole "i'm dying" thing will suck for them... PS-i doubt you're going to die.

4. i don't want u to die :(

5. awww i hope this site helps you out...this situation is similar to yours honey http://gallys.nastydollars.com/te/2/flow...

6. go to church?

7. I don't know how you would be able to predict that you're going to die soon. If you are concerned, it's always best to see a counselor or a psychiatrist so you can get through your problems. Anyone that cares about you would want you to die. Good luck!

8. be more confident in yourself!last year,i thought that too!because it is such a bad luck year!keep getting scoled for nothing sometime!!!!!!!!I HATE 2006!

9. go and talk to a lawyer.... he will make sure you leave everything to him..

10. You shouldn't joke about yourself dying. I really hope you aren't going to do anything to yourself. You are married, what would your husband and family think? It sounds like you need to see a doctor and straighten out the problems in your life. Good luck.

11. Don't worry. You are not going to die. You are just stressed out and need some fine tunning. Get some physical exercise and enough sunlight. Multi-vitamins pills and positive friends. Everyone goes through up and downs in life. This is part and puzzles in life. Pray and Stay Cheerful. www.meditationthai.org

12. You are definitely too desperate for attention. And what does it have to do with marriages and divorces?

13. Dear let me be forward. Stop feeling sorry for yourself because you obviously have too much time on your hands. Help other people. Read. Travel. Meet people. Get out of camp loser ,and do something to make yourself happy darling.

14. can i ask you why do you think you're going to die???? maybe you need to talk to someone.

15. You and I... we are in the exact same boat. 2007 was the year from ******* hell for me as well. I've been having the same feeling too.. that something horrible, deathly, might happen to myself some in the near future. And I am somewhat looking forward to it as well. May we someday, somehow hold a better more prominent life. I'm sorry for the pain you've gone through this year; I understand how you feel. I love you, whoever you are.

16. you made my night, stars! and cheers!

17. cookie, Know how you feel, sweetie...really I do. This year sucked for me as well. I'm hoping you feel differently in a couple of weeks. A feeling of impending doom is difficult to shake, but it will happen eventually.

18. instead of waiting to die since your already dieing you should kill the bastard get the life insurance and live it up till you die!

19. Stop being a Drama Queen and check yourself into a good mental health facility. PS why get a divorce if you are going to die soon anyway... just have a will drawn up and exclude him.

20. If you are married... then EVERYTHING will go to him... even if you are separated. Thats the way it goes.... As for the rest- You can have a will set and papers filed through a lawyer. 26 and feeling this way is not normal.... I would try and talk this out with a therapist just to grasp a professionals opinion on it.. Maybe it is symbolic or something? Either way... it can't hurt.

21. sweet heart we all have bad years, but there is always next year. dont give up and give him the satisfaction. instead of looking forward to dieing look forward to bouncing back and moving on. single life is better anyway...especially at age 26. that is how you can make sure your loved ones are taken care of, by being there.

22. If you are thinking about killing yourself don't, God wouldn't like it. Endure with it and ask Jesus for help things would turn out better soon. If you have somekind of sickness leave a will for people you love or give it to charities.

23. WTH? Here's a hint: if you DIE your soon to be ex will be really, really happy. Now, that should be a great motovation to live, eh?

24. you should first get some help because your thinking is extremely negative. if anything, the stress you are putting yourself through is going to cause detrimental effects on your body. things might feel like they are going down hill but think of the things you can look forward to. you have an opportunity to start fresh and change your life in the direction you wish it to change. try to have positive thoughts...this isn't the end of your life. unless you have a terrible disease or something i think you are just feeling depressed. start a new hobby or get involved with volunteer work. make yourself feel needed and useful. find something fulfilling to do! you are endless possibility. use the freedom you'll have in your life after your divorce to help others and yourself. hope everything goes well for you. the direction your life takes is up to you! think happy thoughts! :)

25. are you still alive?? just checking.

26. I don't know that I believe that you really wish to die. If you've had this horrible year it is understandable that you would feel deeply depressed, which is what it sounds like you are feeling. I also don't know that I believe that you don't know how you are going to die. It doesn't make any sense that if someone is sure their life is coming to an end at the young age of 26 that they don't have a clue how, suicide, murder? You wouldn't just wake up one day and think, ok I know I'm going to die of natural causes or get hit by a bus etc. You must have some fear of something or someone, right? You should talk to someone, a professional, not people online, seriously. If this isn't a joke. Just think of how much others must care about you and if you don't care enough to help yourself tell someone who can get help for you.

27. I know that the storms of life may be unbearable, but hang in there. You mention that you are not scared of death, but don't look forward to it either. Try to find peace, which is through a close relationship with God. Your relationship with him will reveal how important it is to celebrate and look forward to living over death.

28. You sound like a selfish ''b'' . But I am not in your shoes so i dont really know. Take a chill pill and pray for your marriage. souds like your hubby has pushed you over. I hope your marriage will work out. But it just might be in your best intrest to get divorced from your unloving controlling husband and find true love hunny. Your worth it.

29. WEll naturally you would need to make out a will and have it noterized by two people. Some people like to get another person on their bank accounts so that way they can get money out easily. It is also good to make early funeral arrangements and let them know how you want to be buried and where. Have all your bills paid up so that everything does not go into a trust till they are. Have a letter prepared that states the name of your bank. If you have a safe deposit box then have another persons name on it. Have any life insurance policies and any other things written down so that your family has easy knowledge of all that you have and where to find it and get it. Have your last tax statements at hand because they will have to file for part of the year that you were still alive, especially if you paid in because you will owe something out of your estate. Make sure you have your car insurance written down too and the companies name, morgages on houses, car loans, etc. all of this should be written down so they know where to get in contact with these people. I don't think you are going to die unless you take your life. I hope this is not what you are planning on doing. Your life is precious and it will get better. It does not always stay bad really! You have been going through a ruff time of it and I pray you stay strong! I felt this way in my life too and it did get better. I thought it never would but it did! It is always good to prepare for things though. A person never knows when they will die and it sure is easier on our loved ones when we take care of such matters. My father just died and I have been going through this whole mess and it is not easy when they do not make a will and tell you where all these things are. I hope I have helped.

30. very sorry to learn you have this feeling. since you do not state there is an ailment or illness, maybe it is just a feeling. it is my hope you will be fine. i have thought what i would like to leave after i depart this earth. i think one thing is to make a video expressing some of the things of interest and importance in this life. it is my sincere hope you will be ok. good luck and gods blessings