I've recently started college... and I figured it be nice to find a girlfriend to spend some time with. Well, I found one, and it seemed like everytime she came over to my dorm, she'd rather spend time with my roommates then me. In retrospect, she was using me as an excuse to get with them, because she hit on my one roommate (and best friend) and he didn't do anything about it out of respect... and about this time, my suitemate broke up with his girlfriend, long story short, within about a week she broke it off with me and got back her boyfriend. The first girl got with another roommate of mine. This story is to demonstrate my futility and lead me to two questions... number 1: What do I do now that I see both of these girls everyday... and number 2: How do I stop losing every girl I fall for to my friends/roommates?
Answers:
1. 9 minutes ago I've thought about that, but it seems that every girl friend that I have says Im great. I'm (per what they say) chivalrous, kind, thoughtful and everything like that... is it possible I'm too nice?
2. try to study yourself, maybe the problem is in you.. you might have everything but maybe you lack of something or maybe you have attitude problem that girls really hate.
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